Does mental health not matter?

[Anonymous]

So I was in a relationship where my ex girlfriend never understood my mental health issues and either often judged me and made fun of me. Well after the breakup there were somethings I owed her for I recently fell into a major depression where I had to take a leave from work. She texts me asking for a payment and I call her to explain the situation and she goes you’re just sitting on your ass at home aren’t you. This isn’t acceptable to society, I need that money to get Christmas presents, also I need to get new tires before the weather get bad so if I lose control and have a wreck on the road it’s gonna be your fault.

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5 mo

I appreciate all insight because hearing this from her caused me more depression

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, that really sucks she acted like that about your mental health stuff. Some people just don't get it, ya know? Like depression ain't something you can just turn on and off whenever.

I'd say don't even stress what she thinks - she obviously ain't gotta clue. Plus she's your ex for a reason right? You don't need that toxic negativity in your life.

As for the money, tell her you'll pay when you're back on your feet. Mental health comes before any debts. If she tries guilting you again, just remind her it ain't your problem if she can't manage her own money/presents. Not your fault she's irresponsible.

Least your work understands - that's all that really matters right now. Do what you gotta do to take care of your head, bro. Don't let anybody rush you back before you're ready. Try hit up some buds too if you're feeling down, we're always here for ya. Keep your chin up!

[Cutegirl06]

She sounds crazy tbh. My boyfriend has ptsd and I always want to be with him when he has flashbacks. I'm so sorry she doesn't understand what you're going through. To make fun of someone else's suffering is horrible!!