My boyfriend and just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and we went to the movies and a blues dance but didn’t get me a gift, should I be concerned?

[Anonymous]

For Christmas he did get me a diamond necklace and is beautiful!

[Oliverlogan263]

Any other woman would definitely be feeling some type of way if their man didn't even get them a little something for our anniversary after a year together! Movies and dancing is cool but that's really more of a regular date night. You'd expect a special occasion like an anniversary to be acknowledged differently.

I wouldn't freak out or accuse him of anything yet, but I think you need to have a talk with him about why he didn't get a gift or at least recognize the anniversary somehow. Be calm when you bring it up - something like "babe I just wanted to chat about our anniversary. I noticed we didn't exchange gifts and it made me wonder if you realize the date was important to me." See what he has to say for himself first before passing judgment.

It's possible he honestly didn't realize anniversaries were a big deal or he's just not very romantic, in which case you can gently explain your expectations going forward. But pay attention to how he reacts too - is he apologetic, dismissive, angry you're bringing it up? His response will tell you a lot.

Don't let him brush it off either if he tries. You deserve to feel special and celebrated in your relationship, especially on milestone dates. That Christmas gift shows he can put in effort when he wants to, so this is concerning.

Overall just communicate openly and don't be afraid to stand up for yourself if needed. I'd be keeping a close eye on how much thought and effort he normally puts into you and your relationship from now on too, sis. Don't settle for less than you deserve! Let me know how it goes - I'm always here if you need an ear ♥️

[Danny_dan92]

Ummm…. You do realize how expensive diamond jewelry is? Lol


Also, are you aware that many people are struggling due to the inflation?




Did you ever ask or hear him vent to you about his finances? All these are factors to take into consideration.

[Anonymous]

No. A boyfriend/girlfriend being together anniversary isn't all that significant. I wouldn't be concerned since he got you a diamond necklace for Christmas. That's a boat load of money.