Girls, What do women like most about men? As a man who has little to no relationship experience is it physique, personality or the way a man dresses?

[WanderingSigma]

As a muscle bound warrior I’ve struggled for years to understand what makes a woman want a man and love seems so hard to find. Whenever I feel I found the one, I find that they have no interest in me. Am I missing something?

[_Maya_]

Personality tops my chart. Of course I will have to be physically attracted to him but personality is what counts most. You can be perfect looking with a dud of a personality. That isn't going to be someone that I want to get into a relationship with. There are other things that I look for but I would say the one thing that is prob last on my list if at all is height. I am 5'7" tall and tend to date around my height. My ex was actually an inch shorter than I am. Maybe you are just not meeting the right girls so far. Where do you tend to look for girls if you don't mind my asking?

[WanderingSigma]

Well I’ve recently been searching at my workplace I work at a hospital now and a lot of women around my age some are younger and also there a few older. I’m not picky with what a woman looks like or what race she is or any of that. I desire love but for some odd reason it’s as if my mind can be read and they avoid me. But I look in other places sometimes even at the typical Walmart 😅 but hey I’m just hoping for a miracle at this point.

[IslaTheWitch]

@WanderingSigma watching and waiting for a miracle, unfortunately, won't work. You have to be, exist, be visible, and have this something that is unique only for you. Silly jokes? Colorful stories? Witty texts? Every person has their unique traits. Be proud of yours and present them to the world

[Singing_Hollow]

All 3 factors play a role. Just like men look for beauty, good heart and someone who looks after themselves, a woman also values those things. What i find attractive in a man first is his intelligence and if he has drive. Nothing sexier to me than a man that knows what he wants and is able to lead. if he is driven he is able to provide for a family, if he is intelligent he can teach me a lot, if he is assure then he can lead. Looks are a bonus and personality can mask physical attraction.

[WanderingSigma]

Thankyou for your input it means a lot 😄

[Anonymous]

“As a muscle-bound warrior”

That right there is your first clue as to why you are struggling. Any man who would say such a thing has an obvious personality flaw.

[WanderingSigma]

Yes I’m a strange one lol. I’m brave but also very insecure. Strong but very timid so I am what most women see as uncomfortable to be around. But that’s just my guess. I have a corny sense of humor as well

[WanderingSigma]

Whenever I try to talk to a woman I freeze up. It’s a normal habit and I understand that women love confident men. I just never was but try so hard to be. It’s hard to explain

[mandyfire98]

A mix of personality, confidence, how you present yourself, how you take care of yourself.

[Akam93]

Protection, safety, romantic, fun, funny, outgoing. And cute.

[Samantha_17]

Self confidence + a well toned body + good looking eyes :)

[missvivacious]

Smile, personality, and vibes. Physique isn’t really on the list. This can come in and packaged.

[IslaTheWitch]

personality, especially smart and witty :D