Is it okay I’m crushing my co worker?

[Anonymous]

We work together on the daily very closely with consistent communication and decisions. Morning to afternoon!
I’m likely just being selfish because he’s handsome.
However, my job status and income is more important to me
The whole thing It’s annoying me.

[Oliverlogan263]

Awww girl, I totally feel you. Crushing on a coworker is the worst because it adds that risk of messing with your job and income if things go south. But it's so hard not to notice a handsome face you see all day!

At the same time, you gotta protect your peace and your paycheck. They always say don't mix business with pleasure. As much as you may want some pleasure, losing your means to make a living would be way worse.

My advice would be to try distancing your feelings if you can. Keep things professional at work - no flirting, no private chats. Out of sight/out of mind may help. When you start crushing, redirect your focus to the tasks at hand.

It'll pass before you know it once you put your energy elsewhere. Then if he's still single down the road and you change jobs, who knows - maybe it's meant to be! But for now, your career has to come before any crushes unfortunately. Stay strong girl!

And between us, just admit - ain't nothing wrong with a little harmless daydreaming on slow days to pass the time. As long as it doesn't affect your work like I said. You do you, babe!

[Saiesh30]

If it's hindering your work and your efficiency then ofcourse, it's not okay.
If not, then there's no problem.
Crushing is quite natural, you know it. We all have someone that we like and crush on.
But if it gets to the point where you're getting annoyed and not able to stay focused in work then it's not healthy.

[Anonymous]

He’s my F-Buddy. Back off !

[Asker]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[Asker]

lol exactly. 🫰 out of it eh 🤣🤣