I asked my best friend/Crush to go on a real date with me but she replied "friends don't go on dates and maybe it's weird. What should I do?

[Vivek081]

We met each other online, after that we met in person and also we went to so many trips. 5 - 6 times a year she comes and stay with me at my place for 10 -15 for her holidays. She's from an another country. I do everything for her within my power. We share same Netflix and Spotify accounts. We share our live location with each other. We talk to each other like every hour, sending infinite number of memes/reels to each other. I told her multiple times that I have feelings for her and I love her like crazy. We are in this complicated relationship for like 2 years. I love her as a girlfriend/partner and she always tells me that we are friends. I love her more than anything in this world. What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

here is what I would advise:

Man, it sounds like you really care about this girl. The fact that you've been so close for 2 years shows she values you as a friend too. But it also seems like she's not ready to take things to a romantic level.

A few things to consider:

- Really listen to understand why dating makes her uncomfortable. Respect her boundary for now. Pushing could damage the friendship.

- Keep being the amazing friend you have been. Show her through your actions that you care deeply, not just because you want more.

- Give her some space to miss you. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Back off a little from constant contact so she realizes what she'd be losing.

- In time, if she starts opening up more, you could bring it up again gently. But make it clear the friendship is most important - don't force an answer.

- Focus on yourself too man. Don't pin all your happiness on one person. She may come around, or you may meet someone new.

Stay positive - you never know what the future holds. For now, appreciate what you have with her as a friend. The rest will work itself out if it's meant to be!

[slatyb]

You should accept that she doesn't feel the same way about you, continue the friendship, and date other women.

[RoseySarah]

Sorry your being used!

You get to have those feelings and she gives you her presents and friendship!

Sadly to many girls do this just wanting to be friends stringing guys along using Thier feelings and she knows she is doing this!

She targeted you for this and for herself being free shoving you into her friendzoned till she finds someone more useful to ghost you.

Your a free boyfriend without commitment!

[Anonymous]

You are not ready to be dating anyone. Using the word “crush” is a dead give-a-way.

[spartan55]

Dude, you are getting so used.

[Tharithi]

Propose her like a Man U wuss