Would you give this situation a Yay or Nay?

[Anonymous]

Have y'all ever heard of that saying? say no too second chances, but what if i take him back && he actually do right? I don’t how I should move with this one… what’s your opinion or advice on this intake?

No, Leave them where they belong…IN THE PAST?

Yes, Make things right if that’s your better half

[SueShe]

For me personally, it is a "Nay", why?

People might want to change when confronted with this situation but in the long run, when everything gets back to a normal pace and routine has installed itself, the old habits take over again. It may not be today or tomorrow but in a few months or years, the old routine kicks in again and all the efforts were for nothing.

It is almost impossible to change bad habits unless your health (and life) is at stake. A relationship is not comparable because it does not affect you like for example a cancer does. If a doctor tells you to take your meds because otherwise you lose your life, you have no choice but to take them. If on the other hand you don't change your habits in a relationship, the only consequence that may arise is the end of the relationship. That is not the end of life...

[laly520]

depends

if its a cheating case

then never

[Anonymous]

A cheater is always a cheater. Even if they stick with you, you'll always be the last cheat in their list.

Anyone can make a mistake, but choosing someone else is a choice not a mistake. If that choice doesn't work out, you have to own it.

Only time I'd say to give a second chance is where the person in question made all the right moves but their partner ditched them (and they had truly moved on).

[Minnow21]

If he cheated, then like the others said don't give him a second chance. If it's something like he didn't know how to treat you right and he learned how, then it's okay to give him a second chance, in my personal opinion.

[Nikki1989]

Nay. Leave them in the dust.