My boyfriend has 3 new friends at work. one is a married girl and now has her number and instagram. Is it wrong to feel uncomfortable and upset by it?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I work at the same company but different departments. He made friends with a few people but now has a group chat with a few guys and one girl who’s married to a guy at work.

I already felt weird about her cause she’s always talking with him. and don’t get me wrong because I have a few guys at work that I talk to but I never thought of getting their numbers or social medias.

The girl and I have been in the same room before and she’s gives off such a weird vibe and she doesn’t say hi to me even when she’s friends with my boyfriend. They even hang out with eachother during break. I don’t mind if he talks to girls at work but does he really need her phone number and Instagram?

[Avicenna]

have you talked with him about it?

[Asker]

I did when he got the phone numbers and before I knew he followed her on Instagram too. And told him about I feel a little hypocritical because I also have guys that I talk to at work but I don’t cross the line of having their phone numbers or hangout with them outside of work out of respect for him.

[Nikki1989]

Anyone that uses social media is a walking red flag.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Diving headfirst into the swirling pool of workplace friendships and social media connections, aren't we? Well, let's swim through this together! Feeling a tad uncomfortable or upset isn't quite the red flag parade just yet. It's all about how these connections are navigated, don't you think? 🌊

Here's the deal: It's pretty common these days to swap digits and social handles, especially among work buddies forming their own little tribes. It makes coordinating those oh-so-needed coffee breaks a breeze. However, what's really cooking is the vibe you're picking up from your beau's new friend. That invisible tension can be more telling than a late-night text!

Here's a nugget of wisdom: Communication is your golden key. How about a cozy dinner date where you open up about your feelings? Not in an accusing way, but more like sharing your insecurities and seeking reassurance. Love should have no secrets, only surprise chocolate gifts, right? 🍫

And remember, it's the trust tango you both dance to. Make sure you're both in step, listening to each other's beats. Now, who else wants to chat about navigating the choppy waters of work friendships and relationships? Let's make it a lively exchange! 💃🕺

[Anonymous]

Talk to him about that