Do girls like studious guys who want to make a future for themselves?

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I'm that guy who will be studying on a Friday night while everyone goes out to party. It doesn't mean that I don't like to have fun though. I like to have fun in different ways that don't include loud music and drunk dancing. Would girls view me as a loser because I don't go to those college parties?

oOsweet~o~nessOo · Accepted Answer

A guy with ambition is never anything to be frowned at :)

I enjoy dancing and drinking a little, so I'd ask you to come to at least one or two of the thing with me - so I can dance with you and stuff :D

But I'd be totally down for doing the things you'd like to do - like I love going to museums, art galleries, conventions and things like that to - even a nice walk in a park, picnic, or get a cup of coffee would be fine.

So, I guess it would all just depend on the girl. Your definitely not loser; a lot of guys on my campus study on Friday Saturday nights - from the nerdy guys to the jocks so...

gummybear888 · Accepted Answer

depends on who he is and maybe his personality. I even judge a guy on his dating history if he's hurt any girl he's been with . Doesn't matter if he studies or goes to parties, I will totally try to learn everything I can about a guy before making any real decision. and the obvious answer is it doesn't make you a loser for studying for your future. I studied and finished university, does that make me a loser? no. of course not. you just have to stay positive. cheers.

Apodyopsis · Accepted Answer

Not at all. It's the party boys who are the turn off for me. Guys who are concerned about their future are my type of guys. I don't know about other girls, but you definitely shouldn't stop being who you are because some girls don't like it (see anon user below). I'm sure you're awesome.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

in their teens and early twenties girls will ignore you. When they turn 25 they start noticing you and will want to be your girlfriend and maybe even your wife because you are finaincially stable. It happened to me, but I chose to go for the younger girls.

dudeman · Accepted Answer

after they f*** a good amount of guys without ambition

tohrment · Answer

Not if that's the only thing he's got going for him.

But no, I wouldn't view him as a loser. I'm not particularly social, but I enjoy partying every now and then. So long as that didn't bother him, I would be fine with dating someone like that. But I love doing chilled things, too, like oOsweetonessOo said - so I'd get along pretty well with a guy like that. Ambition and motivation is never a negative.

Anonymous · Answer

you do sound kind of boring, but ironically I'm in on a Friday night too lmao

RosaliaVanderbilt · Answer

I think I love you already.  I'm just the same way.  Never change.

NerdInDenial · Answer

You will be considered an outsider, but a man with money, ambition, and power is attractive to women.

italykam · Answer

Yeah absolutely. And no they really shouldn't think guys like that are losers, because they are the best kind and are mature and know what they want in life. And it is good to be serious and to have fun.

FierceMegan · Answer

NO! I love guys who like to study and have goals. The party guys are usually not worthy.

NewClassic · Answer

No they seem really busy and I'm not as smart as them so its a bit intimidating

AllDay · Answer

it depends on what the girl is looking for

sweet_18 · Answer

Yes we do. But it's OK to have fun once in a while

Anonymous · Answer

i would totally date you.

Anonymous · Answer

I do but I'm intimidated

Anonymous · Answer

That's sad have a little fun and relieve stress

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