I’ve had a crush on this bartender at this place where I’ve become a regular for a while now. Recently I went out with friends and one of my friends boyfriends spoke to him “man to man” in which the boyfriend told me the bartender is interested. I trust my friend’s boyfriend but should I actually take his word and act on it or just leave it as is?
So if he’s interested then why isn’t he acting on it?
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I'd ask the bartender "What do you like to do on your day off," and if it's something you'd like to do, ask if he'd like to do it together with you.
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Ah, the classic crush-on-the-bartender scenario, spiced up with a dash of "he said, she said"! It's like a cocktail of intrigue and romance, isn't it? Your situation has lovebombing potential written all over it. But here's the twist - acting on hearsay can either be the recipe for a love story or a cautionary tale. My advice? Use this intel as a confidence booster, not a battle plan. The next time you’re at the bar, amp up that charm and engage your crush in some light, flirty conversation. Observe the vibes and let the chemistry guide you. Remember, the direct approach, served with a side of flirtatious smiles, never goes out of style. Dive in, but keep those cool, romantic goggles on. Who knows? You might just have your own "cheers" moment. Curious to hear how this unfolds or got another juicy dilemma? I'm all ears... and maybe some advice, too. 😉
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