Are you good at hiding your dislike for your significant others friends? (Page 2)

DizzyDesii · 2024-03-13T16:58:47Z

My exes and I always kept it real if we weren’t feeling each other’s friendships. I am not a fan of my current bfs college friends for several reasons with the main being that they peer pressure him to drink. He has only admitted his issue with alcohol to me but I’m sure they noticed since last year they saw the mf drink himself to the point of vomiting blood. Its really on him since he’s about to be 28 yet clearly still mentally immature and allowing 19-21 year olds to influence his actions. His first 2 years, he showed that he’ll he do whatever to fit in and not be considered the odd old man out (since he went for his certification license late). He hasn't touched the bottle since November thankfully and I’m trying to keep it that way. I’m visiting his campus in a few weeks and I have to meet his friends for the first time. The decent friend who encouraged him to stop drinking (especially after he had to babysit my bfs drunkass overnight) won’t be attending school this year. It’s a shame because he’s the only one I’d care to meet. Instead I get to meet the friend whose a spoiled rich daredevil fratboy who enjoys experimenting with drugs and strippers. I’m cringing at the thought. I don't know if I can keep a straight face when I really want to curse and knock his ass out. My dude says he won’t drink this year but that his friend is very blunt and may say something out of line to me. I told him to let him try cause I got something for that ass. We know my dude doesn’t have balls outside the bedroom, so I know that if his friend and I get into it, he’s going to just stand there awkwardly. But if he takes his friend’s side over mine (which is greatly expected since he for some reason values men’s opinion more), we’re also going to have a problem. The influence they have over him is surprising since he only met them a couple months before we met. Is it a dealbreaker for you if your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t get along with your friends? #FeelFreeToList

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mandyfire98 Follow
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I'm lucky because I get along with them and they're all solid people.

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I'm excellent at hiding my dislike of anyone and anything if I need to be.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Oh wow
  
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- Phoenix98
  
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  It's really not that hard when you've dealt with as much bullshit as I have it kinda becomes second nature.
  
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Nope, the only time I’ve hated a then partners friend I confronted him because he was being rude… turned out he was fucking my ex so yep.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Wooow
  
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- KittygosMeoWW
  
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  Explains why he was being bitchy and jealous
  
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No. I would be appalled if they couldn't keep it civilized though.

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His problem is not his friends. His problem is that he can't say no

There's no such thing as "forced drinking"

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  You’re right. With them he's moslty a yes man
  
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No if I don't like you, you will know about it.

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Nikki1989 Follow
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I don't hide my feelings over this or anything else, really.

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Nope. There's only one of her friends that I really can't stand, though.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Does she know
  
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No. I let it be known.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Good
  
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Shite we're supposed to be hiding that?

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