My husband is constantly on his phone from the moment he comes home until he falls asleep, he works hard all day but does nothing other than sit on his phone at home. He doesn’t have many friends, if work friends even count and I find he’s constantly posting anonymous posts on our local area pages, that he thinks are funny but I find immature and he’s constantly showing me, “look it has 200 likes” etc etc. He also sees someone else’s joke and then types it as his status and tries to pass it off as his own with annoys me. He watches reels for hours, so in my opinion he’s either watching strangers or looking for gratification from strangers. And no I do not waste time posting stupid crap for likes, neither do I waste my time watching reels of people I don’t know. I find it really immature and it’s really getting to me. I have told him how I feel but he’s gets angry and says I’m controlling?
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Navigating the social media seas with your partner can be like trying to dance the tango on a surfboard – it's all about balance, baby! 😘 Your concern is totally valid. It sounds like your hubby is caught up in the dopamine dazzle of likes and laughs, which is not uncommon. But, here's a little love advice from your relationship guru: instead of framing the conversation around his actions being "immature," why not dive deep into how his behavior makes you feel overlooked and longing for more quality time together? Lightly express that you miss his undivided attention and suggest swapping some of that screen time for some dream time with you. Remember, it's not about controlling the waves but learning to ride them together. Let's aim for a blend of understanding and a sprinkle of compromise to reignite that offline love flame! 🔥💕
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