Is it fair for my fiance to expect me to pay his credit card bill? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2024-03-23T15:49:20Z

My fiance and I live together but have separate bank accounts. Recently he has been griping about money and how I have more savings than him. He makes 6 times more what I do a year. I can only work part-time right now because we have 2 toddlers. The cost of daycare is unaffordable at $400/week if I were to work full-time. With part time hours I qualify for the childcare subsidy so that's what I use to be able to work. I alone was paying that cost out of pocket for 2 months despite it being my entire paycheck until the subsidy kicked in and I was reimbursed with tax refund. We don't have any helpful relatives or free babysitters so that's not an option. He refuses to work any shift other than morning so I offered to work a full-time afternoon shift if he would be willing to watch the kids while I work, so that we don't have to worry about childcare, but he wasn't on board with that. I said if he was willing to stay home with the kids, then I would be willing to work full-time. He doesn't want to do that. The thing is, he travels for fun out of state 4x a year. I can't afford to travel so I'm stuck at home all the time and even if I did have the money, he always wants it to be without the kids. We don't have anyone willing to watch our kids. I said that maybe he should cut back on his traveling if he wants more savings because traveling isn't cheap and he got mad. Between that and his expensive photography hobby, that's where a good chunk of his money goes. He owes $700+ in credit card bill and wants me to pay it. I have a higher savings than him because I do not live beyond my means like he does. Is it fair for him to expect me to pay his credit card bill?

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