We’ve only texted, but his passiveness really bothers me. I’d like to feel like I’m the submissive one in the relationship or at the very least on equal footing. I want to be with a guy that can take charge, but he wants me to teach him things all the time, etc. I feel like I get nothing from him.
I like him otherwise, but would this affect our relationship in the long run? I don’t have experience so it’s hard to tell.
Yes. Chances are he won’t change if he’s been that way for a long time. You’re eventually going to start to resent him. Maybe you already do. But women usually don’t love a man they can’t respect. You don’t have much respect for him at all really as a man cause in your eyes he isn’t a man, at least not the type you’re seeking. More than likely you will be the masculine one in this relationship. Which isn’t goi g to work because women who are masculine usually aren’t at their happiest as they would be if they were feminine.
I understand wanting the man to be in charge I'm not judging that I understand it completely. But you are just texting? Because it's possible his texts are coming off submissive when he is not, I have done that before honestly. Sometimes being polite comes off that way in a text. Also what does he want you to teach him?
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Of course you should end it given that it bothers you!
If you are only texting, what is there to end?
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