Is it morally wrong to not hide feelings towards married man if nothing else is happenning?

[Anonymous]

A married man at my work is flirting with me all the time and doesn't hide that he likes me, I don't hide that I like him back, but we're not making any other move, besides knowing that we both like each other.

Am I wrong for that? Technically we're not doing anything bad but feels kinda off.

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24 d

Well technically it can be wrong, but he also turns me on so much when he talks to me, that I can't just turn my back on him. I just hope that no one else can tell ☹️

[Drew-1990]

Well honestly you should be staying away if you like each other. I won't say you have done anything wrong yourself so far but if you keep getting friendly with him you risk doing something wrong. He is in the wrong because he shouldn't be looking and thinking about other girls that way.

[Anonymous]

Technically, you owe nothing to his marriage and can engage with him. He on the other hand should be protecting his marriage.
However, you're a moral person with a sense of justice and right and wrong, not too mention the sisterhood code, so you'll steer clear of home wrecking.

[Anonymous]

Yes, that is wrong and you know it. You wouldn’t want some woman doing that with your husbands back, and even if you don’t know her or owe her any loyalty it’s just the principle of it, morally and karmically.

[Opinion Owner]

Shameful update😭

[Asker]

Girl ik, I just can't hide my feelings. Also I can't leave the work and I'm in an utter shame for this 🫠

[Opinion Owner]

Please stop saying you can’t, because you can, you just don’t want to. I don't know when the last time was that you were in a relationship, but I think being single for a certain amount of time can make you forget what it’s like and forget about the respect you’d wish people showed your relationship. Clearly he isn’t a good partner, and I’m sure she’d be devastated if she knew what he did behind her back. Still, you don’t have to be an accomplice to his bad behavior. I’m sure in your mind this is all harmless fun but at some point you’re going to catch feelings for him and then what? Stop while you’re ahead.

[Booklover_90]

Gosh, I would hate to be this guy’s wife. She has a husband who flirts with other women. The disrespect. What a jerk. 🙄 You all are doing something wrong. Please find a single man.

[DryGermanGuy]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homewrecker

[jahaims]

Morality is subjective. Flirting is cheating