She's 20 married and into me bud isn’t strait forward about it? she's 20 and is giving me mixed signals?

[WCM100]

I work with a girl who I kicked it off well but recently found out she’s married? She’s 20 and still actively seeks interest in me as I feel.

I definitely don’t push it now knowing this but engages conversation all the time causally at work. And I’m practical and respectful of her life and do the same morally and ethically back nothing more.

The other day she literally spoke with me for an hour outside right after work when I was about to head home. I don’t mind being her friend only but I feel like there is more to it or something. I don’t understand this mainly because she’s married and never popped my mind it would be okay being a guy friend of a married woman. She wants to hangout with him also?

What’s her motive or am I missing something?

[Avicenna]

OK, it's not clear if she has contact with you outside of work- does she?

[WCM100]

She texts me yes.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

You're her friend. She wants you to hang out with her and her husband. You can do it. It might be fun and they might introduce you to a new girl.

[WCM100]

thanks I just don’t want to get involved with a jealous husband over something simple as what you’re saying. I enjoy good friendships but only with the right people.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Don't give him any reason to be jealous then. You know. Some married women are kind of like, "Errmmmm." You know? They can be kind of weird, aggressive, horny. But they're taken. Yet you can be totally down to befriend each other especially when it involves the husband. That's the best context.

[dustybiker2]

She's married. Maybe respect that, even if she won't.

[WCM100]

Yes I communicate but respect that.

[Anonymous]

Married women are harder to read because most of them are very careful especially if their husband is around they have a lot to loose. A lot of times they will get close to you, single you out to talk to you, make subtle innuendos that can be played off as innocent enough, and the list goes on.

Another thing is that some married women may have feelings but not act on them but they may subconsciously leak signs or even flirt but only so far.

Notice her behavior because not all married women cheat. But if you’re noticing she’s making a effort to talk to you and spend time with you. She may be begging you to fuck her without being overly obvious

[Theworldislost]

If she's interested and willing to cheat on her husband, she will do the same to you. It's not worth pursuing.

[strateguy632]

because she was already married, likes you but signals stop.

[Iron_Man]

Relationships are very complicated. Take it slow. Don’t get stressed out. See how it goes.

[Iron_Man]

Oh, she’s already married. Forget it don’t get involved.