Are you stressful to deal/date with? Why/why not?

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Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

I think so. Because I have streaks of perfection, and caring too much at times.

I want things to be done right maybe even a certain way. I’m an ocd addict for perfection/ the “right way.”

So I think this definitely has its effects on my intimate relationship and my other close knitted relationships. I hear it from the family and seen the signs from friends. A few times I definitely got the vibe from my partner.

‘period talk,’ or concern about when that was, and all 😂.

KittygosMeoWW · Accepted Answer

No, I’m very peaceful and pleasant to be around. I do have boundaries and the moment anyone makes me feel a certain way I will drop them though.

Papisongo · Accepted Answer

Hell no! Just as I wouldn’t want to date someone if it was going to stress me out, I wouldn’t want my partner to feel stressed about any aspect of our relationship either. There is no room in my life for drama. If we choose to be In a relationship, it’s because doing so enhances both of our lives. If she’s not happy, I’m not interested in holding her hostage. I only deal with women who would extend me the same courtesy

Mr_twoface · Accepted Answer

I would say yes, in the initial few minutes of the date, cause usually I'll be all sweaty and stressed about not wanting to lose face or embarrass myself. Though, after the initial minutes, it will be all chilled and I’ll hopefully have an awesome time.

DishLady · Answer

This is such an interesting question. TBH, I don't think that most people would assess themselves honestly enough to grant your question very accurate results. No one wants to think of themselves as being "stressful to date" even if they are. Personally, I think I probably fall into the middle somewhere, as most people do. People are so different that what one person finds stressful or intense another person finds charming. Just find the one who thinks you're charming.

CriticalCatDad123 · Answer

Well I haven't been on a date in years because I enjoy being single and having my life be my own. I don't like sharing something that is important to me. So I guess by default it could be said that it is stressful to even attempt to get me to go on a date.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Not really. My personality has never been described as stressful at all. In fact it's usually the opposite. I've always been told I make people feel welcome and at ease.

TaureanBull81 · Answer

@pinay_ako if you're annoying as fuck to people you love ❤️, remind me to go down on you so you don't talk to much haha 🤣

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I'm definitely not the easiest one to deal with :D

1millonlies · Answer

Kinda. I’ve been told I’m too demanding with sex. I’m not sure why I’m like this. Might have problem lol

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Probably. I’m intelligent, uncommonly honest, extremely communicative and i have self respect. My experience suggests most women can’t handle a man with just one of these traits, let alone all of them. “Game” is the name of the game, but i don’t play and i won’t be played.

Bman07 · Answer

Not at all, I just want to get to know you and have fun while doing that. No politics, no bad vibes. I Know there's always ups and downs but drama free is the way to be in my opinion. Especially when its just starting out, that is a big no no for me.

Simslover92 · Answer

Lol yep. Just stressed my boyfriend out with our conversation we had. I made things super complicated like I always do.

Xia1994 · Answer

Life is stressful and hard to deal with as it is so I reduce stress and hardships a bit in my life by not being a stressful and hard to deal with person when dating and in life generally.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I don't think I'm stressful, but I can be annoying lol

SotiCoto · Answer

Sure. That is why I stopped. I'm impossible to get along with for any length of time, so I figured it would be needlessly cruel to impose myself on anyone I actually cared about.

NathanDavis · Answer

no... it's a date I'm not your dentist, lol

laly520 · Answer

I believe dating me is very peaceful I dont ask for the impossible or would want to argue or sth

JHAYES317 · Answer

Only because I’m all about principle. If you would dump a man for something out of his control, like losing his hair, his dick shrinking, being shorter than you etc…can’t date a woman like that

Vick2828 · Answer

I’m really not. I have had many women friends hate my girlfriends because they were toxic and I was chill. I just want loyalty and honesty. Most people can’t do that simple thing.

dragoblack · Answer

Lol, nope. I'm layed back and go with the flow. Only issue would be if she wanted to go to a stupidly expensive place. I'm not a man with a huge spending budget.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I just want a woman who I can calm her stress…hahaha!!!

serious_miss419 · Answer

I don’t care really.  I pay for my own life and I’m content with my solitude. So this question surely doesn’t apply to me

OtterMan68 · Answer

I can be: I love my alone time and don't want to be around anyone 24/7, and I can zone out when deep in thought

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. I am no drama and no pressure. I want to have fun.

msc545 · Answer

Usuallly I am not, but if you give me trouble I can be.

libsaretards · Answer

I can be. I am not a very open person until someone earns a spot in my inner circle. That is one of the most difficult things to do in this world.

AngryCarl · Answer

I hate dating, which I think probably makes it stressful for everyone concerned.

Jerre · Answer

I can’t recall the last time I was stressful

Unit1 · Answer

I'll never know.

electromagnetic · Answer

I don’t think I am. I’m pretty care free

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

No I think im pretty laid back

exitseven · Answer

No I am pretty mellow in real life.

Jay-_- · Answer

Honestly I don't know, probably 😂

Likes2drive · Answer

No, I’m very easy-going

LavLavLuv · Answer

Nope I’m not stressful to date or deal with

slatyb · Answer

I try not to be.

dolemite58 · Answer

What is with those glasses you got on? 😂

AlexEfron · Answer

I hope not...

Overandunder89 · Answer

Yes, I am. Very.

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