Hello!
I need an opinion on this.. how would you feel if your partner would say " I know you are doing your best effort but I don't receive it / or feel it".
Is it a form of gaslighting?
When he says this to me I feel like all my effort is canceled.. because as humans I think we always want to see the other person happy or satisfied with our best effort for improving the relationship, and this is not what I want to hear from him.