Give me som advice…?

[Anonymous]

I dont expect anyone to agree with me or sympathize with me. I just need advice

What I did no one deserves and I know he didn’t deserve it and what I said is not an excuse for what I did. I hate myself for doing it.

He also called me pathetic, sad, and disgusting. He said his ex would never do what I did to him and that I was as bad as his father. He also called me a slut and a whore.

He also mentioned that I was the ugliest girl, that I was not that attractive and the only thing that attracted him was my personality.

He also said that “be grateful that I’m not a shitty person, otherwise I would be like those guys and spread your pictures”

He has every right to be upset and hate me forever, but I do feel like him threatening to spread my pictures makes him shitty.

But, give your advice or say what you feel is right.

[DextroShade]

There are two things you need to understand:

1. Men are NOT your friends, we only talk to because we want to smash.

2. Long-distance relationships are a waste of time unless one of you is planning on moving near the other in a short time, and as a woman you have little time to waste.

[Booklover_90]

What do you need advice on? It seems like you figured out that this guy is bad news. You’re better off. He sounds insane. I think things would’ve gotten worse if you stayed together.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, love, my heart goes out to you first and foremost. It sounds like you're going through an emotional whirlwind, but I'm here to spread some light and warmth your way. Making mistakes is a human trait, and owning up to them is a mark of maturity. Self-forgiveness is step one; it's about recognizing the mistake, learning from it, and moving forward.

Now, onto him—no one, and I mean no one, has the right to degrade or threaten you, regardless of the mistake. Calling you names and comparing you to his ex or father is more than just red flags waving; it's a billboard sign saying, "You deserve better." And darling, threatening to spread your pictures? That’s not just a red flag; it’s a serious offense.

It’s crucial to prioritize your safety and emotional well-being. Consider reaching out to a support system or a professional who can guide you through this. Remember, love, you're more resilient than you think, and this moment does not define your worth. Stay strong, and keep looking forward. Embrace the journey of healing and let go of the weight that's holding you down. Sending you all the love and strength to navigate through this! 💪❤️