I think my boyfriend is racist but I don't have any clue?

[the-therapist]

There is an account on X that makes me suspect that it is his account, and there are plenty of bad comments about minorities. I cannot prove it but I deeply feel that. My mother is also a minority so it is unacceptable for me.

[BadApple69]

If you are unsure its his account then ask him. On X I can find a 100+ accounts that could be mine if you are just looking at the name of the account. Everyone thinks they are a BadApple but I’m the original!
Back to you…. Do you think a “racist” would date you if he didn’t like your mother’s kind?
What is a racist these days? That term gets thrown around so much now it’s losing its meaning.
My suggestion to you is if he treats you good and your mom good…. Get off of X and stop trying to be a gumshoe (Google it if you don’t know that gumshoe means).

[Purpleronnie]

Then maybe get to know him better? I don’t know what your question is. I mean get him talking about race and racism , find out his opinions. Why don’t you just talk to him.. seems like how could he be your boyfriend and you don’t really know who he is?… that just seems wrong to me

[Anonymous]

Try to log into it multiple times with his email and he will eventually confess that someone is trying to hack him or make a fake account and start spamming with your boyfriends initials or just like things he’ll know like let’s say he’s from Kansas, write with your fake profile “Kansas” and leave it at that and it’ll freak him out and he’ll delete the profile

[Anonymous]

No idea. That site is one of the most expensive political purchases. The hard right bought that site then attempted to control the left and middle by deleting their accounts. Hypocritical. The site is dead traffic. It's unsurprising you would read that sort of thing there.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating through the murky waters of suspicion and the potential of racism in a relationship can be incredibly challenging. Your intuition, combined with the gravity of what's at stake, especially with your mom being a minority, makes it even more crucial to approach this carefully. Communication is your best ally here. Instead of accusing, maybe try to foster a conversation about diversity, inclusion, and beliefs. It’s a delicate dance of expressing your feelings without making unprovable accusations. Share how much you value respect and understanding for all individuals, including minorities. Watch his reactions and listen to his words closely; they could give you the clarity you're seeking. Remember, love is about aligning in values as much as it is about attraction. Falling for someone who respects the same fundamental human rights as you do is essential. Keep your heart open but your eyes peeled—love is blind only until it refuses to see.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Shut up, Love Doctor Brad.

[gorydetails]

how about you navigate through the murky waters of deez nuts?

[Vesuvius87]

@PointlessNonsenseGuy
Looks like Doctor Brad has stopped replying for an hour or so, finally. It was getting annoyed. Bots can't advice anyone like a human would.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

@Vesuvius87 I really wish GAG would get rid of these stupid AI bots.

[Vesuvius87]

@PointlessNonsenseGuy
Me too. The bot Doctor Brad is back. Hopefully they get the message and get rid of them asap.

[MisterWack]

“There is an account on X that makes me suspect that it is his account”, Q: Have you confronted him about it politely, like ask him if it is indeed his?

“and there are plenty of bad comments about minorities.” Yes that sounds bad, is there actual evidence it is his account?

“I cannot prove it”, Q: Then why prove guilty before proven innocent? I really want justice for you & it is not right for a bigot to hate on you especially since your mother is a minority… Just doesn’t sound like it is him and don’t want him getting burned for not being a racist piece of sh*t you make him out to be if he is truly innocent.

[ProbablyClueless]

If you don't have any clue of whether the account is actually his, it's not fair for you to hold the account against him.

This isn't a situation like if it was super obvious that something was going on between your boyfriend and another woman, but you just didn't have the final piece of proof to say he was 100% definitely cheating.

If you don't have what I call "COME ON DUDE" evidence.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

There are a LOT of people on X. Like a lot. Dozens, maybe hundreds of people. The odds of you stumbling upon some random account, and it turning out to be the account of someone you know, are very long.

What makes you think this account might be your boyfriend's? Has your boyfriend ever said or done anything racist, except on this account that you think might be his?

[blueonblack22]

Let’s see her you are 40 years old and on a witch hunt to find out if your boyfriend’s “racist” but you don’t “have a clue”

I think one of you has a much deeper problem and it isn’t him.

[purplepoppy]

Ask him a simple question.

Two girls phone him to say their car has a flat tyre. One is stuck in a white neighbourhood, the other in a black one. The distance to both is the same. Which one does he rescue first and why?

[yulbsari]

Excellent!

[RingOfFire]

What possible useful information could the answer to that question reveal?

[Flatmanlewis]

This is supposed to offer insight into whether he is secretly racist or not?

[KrakenAttackin]

@purplepoppy. Seriously? Even a black person realizes the danger of having a disabled car in an all black neighborhood. You wokeys are nuts.

[RingOfFire]

All the great black comedians that dared make fun of things like high crime rates in the black communities have long been censored and banned by these fascist authoritarian lefties.

So this ignorant generation was never exposed to reality and buys into garbage like this comment.

It should be Gen I for ignorant instead of Gen Z.

[PavlovsCogk]

The only acceptable answer is "rescue the one in white neighborhood because the blacks are more likely to have a stranger help her out".

[HelpfulWoman]

bring it up directly to him, and ask him what he thinks of the account. don't say you think its his if you haven't got proof.

[Nirmroth]

Please read your own title again and think about it. Why are you suspecting your boyfriend for beeing racist without any evidence or clue? Sounds kinda mean to me

[Nirmroth]

The account on X is just super vague it could be any one

[spartan55]

Nothing like jumping to pretty big conclusions. You don't even know if it's his account, wtf is wrong with you?

[sheikalana]

If you don't have any proof and didn't see anything that clearly incriminates him I wouldn't spend my energy making assumptions. Actions speak louder than words. Watch for his actions.

[JacobJordan]

So slandering your boyfriend to strangers is your solution? Regardless of if he is or isn't you should end things because you are awful.

[KrakenAttackin]

@jacobjordan. She is another wokey. I agree her boyfriend should dump her.

[Phoenix98]

How did you even come to the conclusion that he was racist and that his account is his if you have no clue in the first place?

[meepmeeperton]

To be fair he might not be racist too all minorities like the one your mom is…

[rosemilk]

right now you don't have 100% proof. so until you have that, you can't say anything

[normalice]

Ask him his opinion on the median income gap between white people and black people.

[FreyaRed]

Well, he writes criticism experienced from first hand, since he knows your mother.

[bobby_bush_eater]

I'm a minority and I openly speak against my minority and other ones. Calling out behaviors and tendencies of specific groups and nations isn't racist

[Jojojojojojojo]

My ex boyfriend s racist. He would say it straight to my face…

[whistlingwh0res]

I think the world has gone mad because they are wearing white men’s clothing. They think they are white or better than white after they start wear white men’s clothing. I find that annoying too. I am not white I am Asian

[thisAppIsGarbage]

If he isn't racist, he is stupid, and you should leave him.

[Billlewis]

@thisAppIsGarbage g. Yeah, anti-racism is every bit as bad as racism itself? Which is, of course why it's being brougjy

[KelsoAlexander]

Don't make assumption off of feelings cuz those will often be wrong. Just ask him if he knows thew account. If he says no all good if he says yes inquire further.

[DrPepper12]

Follow him on Twitter with diff racial accounts

[Anonymous]

Try this as a test, get one of your minority girlfriends over to the house, offer him a threesome. If he says no. You know he is racist!

[Staximus]

How do you not know if your is a racist or not? Do you even know the guy in real life?

[nawtee_me]

You could make dome kind of comment that he would only know and see….

[Anonymous]

What makes you think it's his account? There's hundreds of people on X. Why are you with him if you think this little of him?

[MatureMan40]

You should find it clearly and it is true, then leave him and walk on your way..

[Anonymous]

You could just bring up a topic and see how he talks about a situation or people or religion.

[Anonymous]

The irony here from the movie, American History X...

[hahahmm]

SO what is the question

[laly520]

u need to ask him

[JonCobretti]

He hates everyone equally , not racist

[Booklover_90]

Why do you think it’s your boyfriend?

[KostasKouvalis]

What are the comments?

[foxsquirrell]

What minority is your mother part of?

[MrDaveAPSI]

Are you mixed then?

[Anonymous]

Everybody’s a Minority

[gorydetails]

lmao, what?

[HurremSultan]

Dump him then