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That I can’t deal with other people’s trust issues. I’m a free bird, I blow with the direction of the wind, you might not always know where I am, even I might not even know where I am, lmao…. BUT…. that doesn’t mean I’m up to no good.
I can’t do all the “where are you going? Where have you been? Who were you with? Why were you back later than expected? Let me look through your phone. Who was that girl who said hi to you at the grocery store?”….. I’m not the guy for that. There’s no drama, I’m not going to yell about it, but we won’t be seeing each other anymore if it happens more than once.
It would be especially frustrating because I wouldn’t be doing anything wrong, and nothing is much worse than being falsely accused. I know enough to keep myself out of questionable situations with other women, and if I AM in one by mistake or some inability to get out of it, I’d still behave myself, out of respect for the woman I was dating AND just out of personal honor. And I’m not that way about women I date when it comes to trusting them, so it’s nothing I don’t reciprocate.
I’m just very anti-drama in general. If we can’t be co-existing peacefully for like 95+% of the time, then why are we even dating?00 Reply
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686 opinions shared on Relationships topic. That you put into it what you get out of it.
Don't be in it if you can't give 100%
Don't be in it if you can't say you're right I'm wrong
And it's more than a 50/50 deal some days
And if you really truly love the person there's nothing that you can't fix communications
And you cannot make anybody love you on there own. . Then it's not going to work
And last but least you never know what's going to happen one day they might walk up to you and say I'm out of here
Or one day they might get caught having an affair and you have to make a choice right then and there and sometimes that choice is hard but sometimes at all times I should say is going to be the best choice hopefully
And when you fall in love with that person it has to be unconditional love with respect on both sides50 Reply
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Need to be able to talk about the difficult things. And not to be afraid of confrontation.
Also, if they show what kind of person they are, believe them.
Think about how they talk about their own friends and family.Don't be with someone you cannot be yourself with.
It shouldn't hurt to be with someone.00 Reply
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That love is one of the most challenging things to go through and if you don't have self-love first before going into a relationship, it won't work. You will become needy and codependent on the person involved and it will take a toll on that person.
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AskAs a relationship coach, I've learned that understanding and communication are the secret sauce to happy partnerships. It's not just about love; it's about really listening and seeing each other's quirks as adorable rather than annoying. You've gotta embrace the silly fights and cherish the random lovebombing moments. Watching love mature is like seeing your favorite movie again; you notice beautiful details that you missed before! 😄💘 Always be open, it's never too late to learn something new about your partner or yourself. So keep those love glasses on! 😉
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552 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Don't take a good thing for granted, rather treat a good relationship like a garden. Weed it, water it, and savor the fruits of that labor.
Treat bad relationships like hot wet garbage, get them far away as fast as possible.
That's friendships or sexual.10 Reply- 1 mo
No relationship is perfect. There are ups and downs, good times and bad times. What's important is to learn from both the good and the bad.
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Honestly, as I've gotten older, I've learned that communication is everything in relationships! 🗣️ It’s crazy how many issues can be avoided just by talking things out. Plus, I've realized that it's important to set boundaries and respect each other's space.
Also, not every relationship is meant to last forever, and that's okay. Sometimes people grow apart, and it's not necessarily a failure. It’s all about the experiences you share and what you learn along the way. 💔💪 And let’s be real, finding someone who respects you and lifts you up is way better than staying with someone who brings you down. Relationships should make you feel good, not drain you! 🌟20 Reply- m1 mo
That you end up settling on your partners imperfections until you stop noticing them as often. That your love and comfortability with them outweighs the negatives. Obviously not true in abusive relationships of course, but even maybe then.
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You put yourself in first place.
You have to take care of yourself phisically and mentally.
Don't allow misery to stay if it comes.
Don't say mean things just because you are fighting at the moment.
If he/she irritates you just go and spend some time in nature and breathe for a moment.00 Reply - u1 mo
that, although there's some patterns...
every person is one of their own, and so it will be the relationship with them... sort of "re-learn" and adjust to the details of every new person you meet, whether is friendship or romance... see them as their own, that's what has always worked the best, for me00 Reply I've learned that relationships have beginnings and endings, ups and downs, joy and pain, times of ease and times of struggle.
Appreciate the good times, fight for that which you deem worth fighting for in order to preserve relationships, let go when necessary...
The list of things learned could go on for quite a while.
Ahh, man, yeah, relationships.
If only I could live as if I believed my own words.00 Reply- 1 mo
Relationships are hard work, they are a team effort and there has to be a good leader. There will usually be no captain save a girl moment, you are not going to catch her before she falls when you first meet and have a long awkward stare into each other’s eyes. Yeah you both might think each other is hot when you first meet, but that’s it.
00 Reply You don't always need to two things:
1) sometimes you don't need to be right and you don't have to get that last word in.
2) you don't always have to say something, that comment cause you're tired and don't want to do something. That sarcastic joke when she's tired. Just keeping your mouth shut goes a long way... sometimes.
I've just learned that avoiding things like this, easy things, that can prevent an argument when someone is having a bad day, goes a long way.00 Reply586 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I am married. I learn that it is unfair to judge your partner’s character based on that ONE big mistake without considering countless good things that they do. I have done this and I know I am guilty of it. Best is to apologise and reconcile.
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That a good relationship shouldn’t be a struggle. If your core values align and both are willing to commit, things can flow almost effortlessly. Bumps in the road? That’s where commitment comes in.
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Less work is better, the girls that you need to fight for or guys that you need to fight for are just not that into you, real good relationships just naturally flow, especially in the beginning.
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Finding the right one can happen when you actually had no intention of it happening. Has turned into the best 12 years of my life and still the love is growing each and every day.
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)1 mo
I think white people are amazing as I grew up. They are the least racist and they really make a person feel comfortable expressing themselves. I have ended up worshipping white people sadly, it's just they are so addictive and loving.
I certainly don't hate my own kind just I feel like appreciating them. Due to relationships I had00 Reply - Anonymous(25-29)1 mo
For a guy you must , must have money to get respect and love from a girl. Other attributes like personality, intelligence, creativity come either later or never. It's not always in a gold-digging way but girls expect to be taken care of in terms of food, and logistics either directly or subconsciously. Doesn't matter how good you are otherwise. Additionally, looks are also very important.
00 Reply 581 opinions shared on Relationships topic. It's not a competition and either you both win or (more likely) you both lose if you turn it into one
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People can have deep, unaddressed trauma and mental illnesses that you don't see for months or years of dating. It's really sad.
00 Reply 341 opinions shared on Relationships topic. That you shouldn't give anyone your blind trust or love
00 Reply5.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. If you get dumped there is always another girl out there.
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Don't take it too seriously I guess. She might leave you at will for no valid reason except to her!
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I have discovered that I am really bad at maintaining romantic relationships.
00 Reply Not to let anybody else into your relationship, they lie telling on selves instead
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Love doesn't exist most will drop you once something better comes along or everyone has a breaking point.
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In order for her to respect me I have to at first respect myself
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There are up and downs , be loyal trust is key ❤️
00 Reply People come and go. No need to get possessive
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Jeez... fucking psycho!
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Smarter than you are
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What'd you have in mind?
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That's just my insecurities getting in the way
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606 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I didn't age much so I didn't learn much
00 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)1 mo
When you meet up for coffee bring a book in case they do not turn up. Women do that.
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That they're not worth having
00 Reply 6.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. True love is worth waiting for.
00 ReplyNot too take them for granted
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Nothing lasts forever… 😢
00 Reply 1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. That none of them are perfect
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Communication is important and confidence.
00 Reply They're tougher than they look.
00 Reply- Anonymous(25-29)1 mo
How they should be avoided at any and all costs
00 Reply Its big trap of life! beware!
00 ReplyThey all take time and a lot of work
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