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Can a woman sway your decision?

If a man is on the fence about a woman. He's not exactly committed or making any moves to show she's the one he wants. Does how the women act sway the decision? So let's say she's showing attention and affection. Looking cute and smelling good and just always trying to impress. Does all the little things she knows he loves. OR she backs off a little. She doesn't text anymore all day asking about your day or to say she's thinking of you. She stops doing the little things and stops showing that it upsets her and that she misses you. Which way is going to make a reaction out of you? Would you gravitate towards one behavior more than the other? Or you would think she wasn't interested anymore and move on?

Little info if it helps-Husband and I of 20 years separated 2 years ago. We recently found our spark again and it's amazing. But- he started talking to someone about 2 months ago and still is. Says he's trying to find a way to end it without hurting her. That he loves me and wants to work on our marriage. But his actions are breaking my heart and I'm confused. She's been staying the night with him. And he's going to family functions bc "she wants him to" I don't know at this point it feels like he's getting his cake and eating too. Would how I act persuade him either way? If I back off would he think he was losing me and have to chose?

Can a woman sway your decision?
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