Benefits of having an ugly boyfriend? (Page 2)
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well I think the benefits of having an ugly boyfriend is that you would pretty much be his goddess and main focus becuase lets face it, most chicks would date at least a decent looking guy were shallow unlike you lol but hey more power to you, you can get passed that unlike the rest of us lol. I'm positive he won't cheat on you because you are his main focus and I don't think another girl would go after him. you can get him to do pretty much whatever you want because I don't think he would want to lose his only chance of having a pretty girlfriend, not to mention the sex. I imagine he would do ANYTHING for you if there's sex involved. those are pretty much the main benifits I think anyways.
My advice is if you are not physically attracted to him then don't date him. To answer your question though it means that your boyfriend will probably not f*** around with other girls due to your advantage in the aesthetics disparity. If you're both attracted to each other physically and mentally though I don't see it being much of an issue at all.
Perhaps the better question is, "Does this guy deserve you"? The moment you started thinking your "better" than him, is the moment he became better than you in terms of maturity and personality. I'd think about that if I were you.
Your free to date who you want, but just bear this in mind, the more you date only those you "attract you physically", the more you'll be reducing your chances of finding someone genuine and better for you.
Well, you probably don't have to worry about him cheating on you, because you feel like you can do better and he should feel like he's hit the jackpot. You won't have to worry about your female friends trying to stick their hands in your cookie jar, because if you barely want him physically they won't either.
But truthfully if you don't find yourself physically attracted to the guy and you feel deep down that you can do better, then why don't you? Odds are you're going to ind up leaving this guy because of what your friends think.
First is your boyfriend charming, funny, nice, and respectful to you? Does he give you attention and affection, and does he like to spend time with you? Is he intelligent and interesting to talk to?
If so then keep him, because these qualities are rare to find.
its not bad to have an unattractive boyfriend because as long as he treats you right and likes you for you then there shouldnt be a problem! I know that sounds cheesy but when you really think about it what would you want more?
a "hott" guy that treats you really bad and couldn't care less about your feelings
or an "ugly" guy who treats you like your his everything?
id for sure go for the second one cause who cares what other people think, your opinion should be the only one who counts!
LOLLLLL!
Having an ugly boyfriend isn't a guaruntee of security in a relationship, but I guess it means he won't be likely to cheat on you, but the flip side is that you won't enjoy doing things as much. If he's ugly to you, the chemistry will be minimal, and that will ultimately hurt your relationship. If it's something you can overlook, great, if not, please don't live a lie to yourself or him because you'll both wind up hurt as a result!
To you, your boyfriend is beautiful in ways that other people are too ignorant and stubborn to find out. Not everything is about looks, ya know. Ignore what your friends say, they don't love him the way you love him. Would you look at their boyfriends and say "you can do better", even though you have never dated their dudes once in your life? Tell them they can suck it, because its the way he makes YOU feel that matters, not the way he makes THEM feel. Good luck.
Being as I am more often than not "that guy" that you refer to in your post. In all honestly... Your initial reservations about his looks, mean you don't like him as potential boyfriend/lover/relationship/marriage material (whatever it is your looking for)... Even if there are qualities he possesses that you would like to have in a more attractive package, he is not attractive to you. You obviously feel you can "do better". You cannot make yourself like/love somebody your not attracted to either, or you'll be miserable, and that's not being fair to yourself. Leave him be. He deserves to find a women that won't constantly be thinking she can do better than "him". Who knows, you just might find a good looking guy, that you will be happy with...
lol ugly guy would have the benefits of never cheating on you because he'll never find another girl like u, treat you with respect, as long as he's not insecure then you should be cool ugly or not he's still a good guy give chance who cares what ur friends say their not the ones dating him you are make ur own decision don't let people make them for u
Very immature and vain, you just might be missing something great because of your vanity. Plus some of these comments from the men are dumb to take any advise lol. Be with him based on his person and how he treats you and makes you feel and shows how interested he is in you and not to just to get you in the sheets. Yes attractive and "un" attractive have these motives. An attractive female can be with a "un"attractive man and this but some reason it bring out the sluts and hoes curiosity as to what does this man have for her to be with him and then they dig their dirty used up selves into what you have with this man. And complication thing yes speaking from many happenings of experience.
lol I am currebtly having a simmilar situation with u!i am dating this guy, he is really not very good looking, all my friends and family say I can get a better guy, and I do sometimes feel embarresed when I go out with him when he hug me and some people use their eyes to stare at us lol that was akward. but this guy defenatly have lesser chance to cheat on you I say lesser not never is still depends. but whn he was away I kinda miss him so probably I will still dating this guy^^
This is what I imagine girls say about me a lot LOL seems like the story of my life
Not so many girls will hit on him. He may feel like you are a prize.
How shallow are you? if you like a guy, like him, date him, do whatever. Don't look to your gfs to 'convince' you to date him. "you can do better" and "hes too ugly for me" attitudes suggest you are ugly inside and need a reality check. this question is ridiculous.
I bet that's what girls say about me.