What is it with men who have wandering eyes?

[Anonymous]

Aren't you content in your relationship? Why make it so obvious to the other woman?

[ohsheeT]

This is kind of a funny question
I'm an empath and I've read people so I'm always looking at people
Because the clothes that they're wearing by the way they walk and their eyes will tell you a lot about them

So I will always be looking
I've had girlfriends where we've been walking through the mall and they'll be two or three guys walking towards us and I look it up at them and their eyes are locked on her

I will keep looking at them wondering when their eyes are going to break free and there's times where I've had to turn my head and look at her she'll look at me and I'll have a s***** grin on my face and so will she and then all we can do is laugh and these guys eyes are still locked on her

No I don't know why they were looking at her LOL I know they weren't looking at her the same way that I look at girls
And probably not for the same reason LOL

The guys are always going to look you have to understand that they're with you
And I'm sure that you have looked at guys too I mean it's just natural

But all guys look at all women for all different reasons it's not always what you think

Same as women look at men not always for the same reasons

If I'm walking in a store and I see a girl heading towards me I'm watching her eyes and they're looking down not at my feet

that's for sure
and they will just stare until we get almost side by side
and then they look up and they'll see me looking into their eyes and they know they're busted and they'll just kind of smile and say hi is we're walking by each other

[Finchie40]

Because most of us men are very visual when it comes to seeing a beautiful girl , but if he is in a relationship, it is disrespectful , if he is making it clear he is checking out other girls’ in front of his partner , cuz that means he is doing it behind her back as well , Some girls’ do this shit as well , so it can go both ways. So looking is one thing , but acting on it is a whole other thing. When a guy truly loves and cares about his partner , he will pretty much become blind to all other girls ‘ and set his eyes on his partner , if he doesn’t become blind to all other girls’ , then something is missing in that relationship , that he isn’t satisfied with , it usually occurs when he feels disrespected by his partner or she doesn’t make him feel valued or wanted ld she constantly nags and complains to him , or he is just bored of her and doesn’t truly love her anymore. Why respect is important in relationships, if she can’t be respectful to him , he will eventually not be respectful to her. It needs to go both ways for any relationship to survive , so if you notice your partner constantly checking out other girls’ in front of you , than more than likely is wrong with either him or her that should be addressed and talked about between them both and figure out what the issue is. Don’t just assume it’s him, it could be you as well. .

[Asker]

Oh that explains a lot. I didn't know. That makes him go staring at the other woman who isn't involved with them?

[Finchie40]

As long as he isn’t acting on it and doing it all the time , you should be ok , but if he is constantly doing it , than you are best to have a sit down talk with him

[Anonymous]

They are probably interested in cheating or maybe just like to look at other girls. Guys can want to cheat even if they are happy in their relationship.

[Asker]

I did not know that. That they would do that even if they are happy

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.

[Nikki1989]

Most men have no control of their eyeballs. You just have to put up with it and yes, the chance he will cheat is always there.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the wandering eye conundrum! 🌟 As a relationship coach, I'm here to offer my two cents. Sometimes, wandering eyes are less about dissatisfaction and more about curiosity or habit. It's important to communicate your feelings and address any red flags or insecurities. Sometimes a gentle nudge can remind your partner to focus on the prize... you! 😉 Talk it out and make sure you're both on the same page in terms of boundaries and respect.

[AviatorTom]

We guys are visual creatures. Nothing wrong with looking.

In college, I dated a girl who told me she would get nervous if she didn't see me looking at other women, because she knew what I was getting from her.

[MrOracle]

Even someone who is eating very well is going to look at the dessert case even though he has no interest in ordering anything. Window shopping is harmless as long as it doesn't go any further.

Where the line is crossed is when you actively pursue someone. That includes messaging someone online. But just looking means nothing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

He probably IS NOT content in his relationship.

I'm not going to judge his reasons why, but I guarantee he has reasons.

Remember... when you see the most beautiful woman ever, somewhere out there, is at least one man that is sick of her stupid fucking bullshit. That might be the man who is sitting next to her right now.

[LiamS95]

Honey, there's a huge difference in wandering eyes then wandering hands or dicks. Men are very visual far more then most females. I appreciate viewing an attractive woman with nice legs or it's always fun to see a pair of bouncing boobs, it doesn't mean I want them anymore then my girlfriend or partners boobs but it just may make me want to play with and lick my partners boobs even more then I already do.

[Joshydavid25]

Plenty of women have wandering eyes too, and in fact seem to do it more blatantly than even some men do..

[Radiate143]

They are disrespectful. That's all. Get a new guy.

[paledreams]

The same way a man wanders his eyes "get a new 🆕 car" aka a new woman. I think all genders are bad apples at times 😃

[Radiate143]

@paledreams uh huh ok

[paledreams]

Let's all be happy, it's almost Friday and it's almost Thanksgiving. I'm thankful for GAG 😂😆 including the comment sections , peace all

[DrPepper12]

Why be so upset about it? If it's disgustingly obvious then call him on how it makes YOU FEEL not the behavior.

[LiamJHayden]

Most straight men will notice other women, but if they stare it is disrespectful.

[Unit1]

You women do it too. y'all eye on those cute boys.

[Raaj4you]

I have wandering eyes bcoz I am single. But when I have a hot girlfriend I will definitely try to stop doing it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are chasing top 3% of men who can do anything they want with women.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[KrakenAttackin]

Most men are invisible to women, so it stands to reason the men who aren't invisible can pick and choose. These top tier men have no reason to worry about your seeing them eye (or have sex with) other women.

[Asker]

Ohh like that. I dont chase those kind of men tho

[Anonymous]

What is it with women who have wandering eyes?

[lorenzomichael]

I don’t know a old war injury. That’s what I would say.

[Anonymous]

Oh please, women are just as guilty of this if no more so. It's sad that only men get called out for this.

[Anonymous]

Those are creeps. There are many men who are in a relationship and will checkout other girls and even think about doing sexual things with them. It's called emotionally cheating with your partner

[Anonymous]

I try not to make it obvious, but it's hard NOT to look!

[MikeTheBartender]

Lack of experience.

[paledreams]

Desperation (sung in a Gene Wilder Wonka tone ( 🤣🥳😂🤣😅 exclamation ‼️

[scott04sa22]

They're probably looking

[paledreams]

At what they could rather be having aka "their own girlfriend starting to show wear and tear like a used tyre tire" lol 🛞 so why not look for a new fresh set of wheels - look it's always like myself now at 30 - I can see why someone would say why date a 30 woman when I could still score a 25 woman ♀️ lol

[Emmytexrex]

They don't self control

[Crazzyyworld]

Men are like that.

[Jmmmfi4]

GUYS LIKE PRETTY GIRLS

[Asker]

They do that only to pretty girls?

[paledreams]

Blame cleavage 👀

[paledreams]

And that they can't comprehend aging, so they try to score 20s women even if they're pushing 40 lol 😆 😂 some people are the same as cougars for older women 30s men hahaha 😂