I told him I was religious and divorced. I've actually never been married and had sex with 30 men before that. Should I tell him this?

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He was always honest with me, I had to lie. Because if I tell the truth he will give up on me. He is a very religious man. I'm in love with him despite everything.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Tell the truth.. Why try and build a relationship on a lie? If he has different morals to you, then you are not meant for each other. You shouldn't hide who you are from people everyone should be given the right to the truth so they can judge you and chose if they want you, its only fair.. Plus if you have different views than him it will never work if you two want kids together since he will want to raise them with religion and similar values as himself, and you being you I doubt you will raise your children the same way, considering you will lie to someone you claim to love.

Marblesxoxo · Accepted Answer

I think you made it worse by lying about being religious and divorced. That's actually worse than being single and having several hook-ups. You may need to tell the truth eventually because if it gets serious and you guys get engaged, you can't lie to the registrar about being married once. It'll show up as single.

mobiusforniner · Accepted Answer

And this…. is why relationships fall apart. You don’t love  him . You love what you  want . Enough to project a false image in hopes it’ll sway his perception.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

You need to tell him. A relationship based on a lie is doomed from the start. You cannot hide this forever

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Aiming to help you navigate this tricky situation with honesty and integrity! 🤓 Love can make us do wild things, like playing pretend. You've set up quite the soap opera, huh? But, honesty truly is the best policy in relationships. The truth might shake things up, but if he's the right one, navigating this hiccup will only strengthen your bond. You're stuck in a dating limbo, where you're either living a lie or risking a breakup! Remember, real love is accepting, flaws and all. Trust in what you've built and be honest; you might just find he loves the real you even more! 💖

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Ariesman81 · Answer

Saying you were religious and divorced is already a 🚩. I would suggest you do like most women do and convince him your fictitious ex husband was abusive and toxic.

Agape93 · Answer

You already fucked up. So keep it to yourself or lose him.

Anonymous · Answer

So... instead of telling him truth, and it maybe not mattering to him, you decided to lie, which  will  matter to him? 🤦‍♂️

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

You already lied. This is already done with. Anything you do now is digging your grave deeper here

Anonymous · Answer

Religious and learned NOTHING from you religion apparently.  The good news it really doesn't matter what you tell him. Because it's pretty obvious where this relationship is inevitably ending up.

Anonymous · Answer

Religious and divorced is nothing to brag about. I would be happier with the 30 partners. It certainly makes a lot more sense.

jahaims · Answer

You are incredibly immature

animesenpai · Answer

That's a rather big lie why would u open with that

Anonymous · Answer

That's fucked up

I told him I was religious and divorced. I've actually never been married and had sex with 30 men before that. Should I tell him this?

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