What are your cons?

Question

I'm sure we all have them, what are your flaws, I won't judge 🙂💯

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Whole lotta ADHD type shit, lmao.

Task completion is tough for me. Like if I do three things in a day, that was a productive ass day for me, lmao. I zone out, I procrastinate, or I’ll just completely forget I had things to do and will be dicking around and then I realize I forgot to do something, and now it’s too late. “Easy solution, WhiteSteve! Make a list!” Bruh…. I will even forget I made a list to start with, or I have a knack for somehow, and inexplicably losing said list🤦‍♂️😂

Like as a person, it’s very important that I avoid situations where somebody other than myself is relying on me, lmao. I’ll have the best of intentions, but if something else amusing steals my attention, it’s over, I’m gone😂

I’m also not great at emotional support. I’m a good times guy, built for laughter. I don’t make the greatest shoulder to cry on, especially if you don’t want me deflecting with humor. If someone close to you died, I probably only have jokes to cheer you up that you may not be looking to hear in that moment. I’m the guy to call when “you’re ready to laugh again”, haha. It’s not that I’m a dick, but I’m just not good at consolation beyond a hug and a sincere “I’m sorry to hear that.” Sadness makes me more uncomfortable than just about anything, and I can’t really be around it.

I guess I’d be remiss to not mention my explosive temper. I’m wicked chill but I’m also known to be a crazy fuck, lmao. Nobody in my hockey league wants the smoke. I’m definitely a big guy but I’m not THE biggest, but the general consensus is that I’m just kind of wired differently than everyone else. Like other dudes can get heated up and get in a scuffle, but I’ll go into a full-blown psychotic episode and fuck the whole night up, lmao. I told a guy a couple years ago that I’d erase his entire bloodline, lmfao, on Thanksgiving Eve, no less😅 I find addresses and let people know I know where they stay at and where the people they care most about stay at…. I get on some wild shit if there’s a problem, and then most of these dudes work in banks and live in fancy suburbs and shit, they don’t know how to handle that type of shit. I say WILD stuff when I’m blacked out, lmao.

So these guys are like “yeah, NO”, when it comes to fucking with me😂 And I like that, to a degree, and it results in NOT having problems to start with, but there’s the flip side where someone who isn’t me won’t see it as positively as I’m able to. Same deal when I was a bouncer: I wasn’t the biggest one, but a couple “events”, haha, and pretty soon people were like “ok, he’s not the guy to swell up to.”

I think the explosiveness of it scares people more than the actual damage done, like I’m not stomping anyone into a seizure or anything, but there’s a lot of…like…. primal screaming? Lmao. I’m in full animal mode when I flip. So afterwards people are usually just like “what in the name of fuck was THAT?”😂 Like I don’t get mad in the same way most other people do.

Tough to segue from that into something more tame, lmao, but the other one, professionally…. I’m a slow worker. Not like a bad worker, but I’m very deliberate in how I do things, and I’m a perfectionist. I used to work at Hollister Co. like 20 years ago, and I remember the district manager was giving me shit because I was folding polo shirts and stacking them. And she comes over and kind of snarkily says “Um, do you think you can do that **a little bit** faster?” Lady, you can fuck right off, this looks GREAT. Basically I can do a job one of two ways: slow and correctly; or fast and poorly. There is no in between, pick your poison. Do you want me to have the place looking nice, or do you just want it sloppily done? Your call, but if you want it fast, don’t expect the stack to be tight and the little size sticker strips to be all lined up. I’m still searching for the professional lane that allows for this but doesn’t require any kind of artistic skills, of which I have none, lmfao

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I wear my heart on my sleeve and unfortunately some people try to take advantage of it and just tell me what they think I want to hear, to find out they are talking out their ass and lying to me , instead of just being honest and respectful to me , so trusting someone is harder for me to do , which sucks because I remember when I use to trust people more back in the day , but nowadays it’s harder for Me to trust , i experienced and witnessed so much fucked up things in relationships to the point I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl, unless I feel she is being completely honest with me , if I have any doubts with her , she won’t get my heart completely. Cuz I now put a wall up protecting my heart from being backstabbed again. I still treat people the way I want to be treated but sadly I tend to analyze people a lot as well in my head , to protect myself from being lied to or backstabbed. I hate that I am this way , but at the same time, I like being this way as well , because I feel it made me wiser to not fall for bullshit or nonsense. I only date girls’ that give the same way they want to receive , if I feel like I am constantly giving without receiving she isn’t the girl for me and I will kick her to the curb , Homesty is very important to me because I had my fair share of lying selfish girls’ that only really cared about themselves, I no longer tolerate selfish dishonest girls’ that think they are sneaky or think they do no wrong whatsoever

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

Biggest beast I am fighting right now is that I was on a detailed roll before the holidays. I was tight. And that forced break derailed me finishing literally and now causing procrastination. I hate gaps. I keep saying "today" but then a neighbor needs help and exhausts me or my house has a major power issue in the coldest snap of the year and I'm figuring that out. And some.
Okay. Putting it all together maybe it's not really my fault. Def feeling better. Maybe today I'll finish...

Thanks. Feel better. •snort•

valentina4eva · Accepted Answer

i can be overemotional, im bad at setting boundaries, eg if someone is aggressive enough the i struggle to say no, i can be indecisive, and i get flustered when im stressed or rushed!!😅😅

woww coming up with ‘cons’ for myself was a little too easy😂😵‍💫😵‍💫

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Flaws? Me? 😅 I'm just a humble relationship coach with a minor obsession with lovebombing, navigating red flags, and cracking jokes! But seriously, sometimes I can be overly cautious around animals due to my lack of understanding of their behavior. On the social scene, I prefer cozying up with a book over hitting the town. Guess I’m more of a couch potato than a party animal! 📚🐶

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

I'll tell if you do... :D

Anonymous · Answer

I don't earn much, and have to work very hard to get it. I save, but it's not always fun because I'm at home, which is not fun, because everything costs so much.

I got into a bad accident, and I'm still dealing with a lot of issues from it.

My dad was physically abusive. Both parents were mentally abusive. I have had lifelong severe depression and anxiety, (whether because of the parents, some genetic issue, or both).

Trust is tricky. Parents both had issues and played fast and loose with the truth... and they would defend a lie (and often an obvious one) as they're going to DIE on that battlefield. Stuff that'd "just break," at random, though (one or both) were in the room. (Yeah that frame with the painting that is out of the way, hard to access, just cracked at random, in room temperature, no one around it. Sure). Same with a lot of other family. Lots of gaslighting.

I have had a lot of friends do some horrible crap - rarely anything I've caused... Just out of the blue, say, at a party, I'd say "Hi!" and get... "We'd be better off if you were dead." (no argument to cause it, never said any of that sort of thing to them). Spread some illogical, nasty rumor, or used something I have said in private (or like in a pretty obvious meant "safe space" like a prayer group) and spread that info around to anyone and everyone. So I'm pretty cautious.

serious · Answer

Yes I have my set of flaws/cons/drawbacks etc. I will mention some of them

1. I am not an open minded, flexible person. On the contrary I am very rigid, closed minded and highly resistant to change. I never want to make any changes in myself ( I mean major changes) means thought process, personality etc. I would instead face the consequences of not changing myself in any major way.

2. I am not a risk taker. For me protecting myself is more important than taking risks.

3. I am person who likes order, certainty, schedules and pre planned things. I don't like to just go with the flow and be open minded about uncertainties and changes.

Account · Answer

Cynical, terrible at recognizing and acknowledging emotions, analytical in a very exhausting way, short-tempered, indecisive, I have a tendency to recycle my hobbies and areas of interest instead of concentrating on a specific one.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Indifferent attitude.
Not good fixing or building things.
Short attention span.
Struggle with focus.
Struggle to maintain calm at times.
Can be easily annoyed.
Withdrawan.
Struggle with overthinking too much.
Can't manage stress well.
judgmental.

MoonFace2 · Answer

I’m needy, neurotic and constantly on edge. When I’m upset, I can be cold and distant. I can be cruel when I lose my temper and I have a bad temper when I’m angry.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

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Unit1 · Answer

😔😔😔😔

LadyBecks · Answer

I have a hard time saying, "no"  I tend to be hard on myself and somewhat of a perfectionist

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Do I have them yes absolutely I am human and a sinner just like everyone else the only one who is perfect is our Lord Jesus.

Anonymous · Answer

"I won't judge" *Continues to judge someone replying* I'm a petty little arsehole when it comes to people like yourself. If you can spend your time pushing people's buttons for fun, then so can I.

rachel776 · Answer

i'm never around. finding someone who matched that was no easy thing

Kelley1 · Answer

I am not pretty enough nor am I tall enough to be an editorial fashion model.

Pupweb · Answer

Too emotional or in my head too much a perfectionist and I have an disorganized attachment style

MemeSupreme · Answer

i got way too many to list like we'd be here all day nobody got time for that

HungTexan · Answer

Ok. I’ll bite. I am too trusting, too horny, and too smart for my own good sometimes.

douride2 · Answer

Me flaws? Ok I tend to talk to much some times. I also over think. Now what about yours?

Crazzyyworld · Answer

i have mood swings, some mental problems, I have a family don’t support me, I feel sceptical about relationship, I didn’t finish college, I like travel too much, I don’t think seriously

Anonymous · Answer

I struggle with depression I used to do self harm, I have mood swings from my hormones being all fucked up

White_Widow · Answer

I'm an empath and I have a very high adaptive skill. So often I adapt to what the people around me need, instead of doing what I need.

satinpetals · Answer

I am an over thinker, that is easily my biggest flaw. I also have terrible social anxiety which I would consider a flaw/con of mine

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Can be blunt to a fault, EXTREMELY stubborn (I sometimes wonder if Marvin Gaye's hit "Stubborn Kind Of Fella" was about me !!!) little use for stupidity, quick to judge, though (except not wanting fat broads) I'm trying to correct that shortcoming.

NicholasRedone · Answer

I have anxieties, lol. I'm somewhat flakey / flaky, I'd admit.

I also am not equipped for a crisis. And I also am one who's like a hippy, without being lazy and no psychedelics. And good hygiene is my pro.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Opinionated.  Limited patience.  Easily bored.  Addicted to adrenaline.

Priya99999 · Answer

1) I'm always concious about my appearance (which is good by the way) 2) I worry about my skin 3) I worry about my size

Anonymous · Answer

I have a rather detached attitude to this world and tend to regard the human race as over rated.

Beckybooboo · Answer

Too naive and too trusting.

Anonymous · Answer

I can guess what yours are. You spend too much time on the Internet, especially on this particular site

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Cons for what specifically?

Shortkay4568 · Answer

In a exhibitionist.

Anonymous · Answer

KAAAAHHNN!!!  That is my con…. I say this way too much and the volume hurts people’s ears 🎻😢

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I’m selfish, cynical, I attach very little importance to anyone’s feelings, I’m extremely arrogant, I can have a short fuse at times, when something pisses me off, I have difficulty letting it go. I could probably go on, but there’s a few.

Jennz6 · Answer

I’m too easy, I’m always saying yes 💃💯

Miah06 · Answer

I have a friend named chris

Eros91 · Answer

I’m really stubborn.

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

I have no idea.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm honest. It gets me into trouble everytime. I'm working on it.

exitseven · Answer

I have trouble with authority.

MikeRJ · Answer

I'm too nice.

CubaPirate · Answer

My lack of tolerance and patience

bigjake1014 · Answer

I like wearing thongs

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