How to find a real dom man in real life?

[Anonymous]

I’m not really into Bumble, Tinder etc. I genuinely prefer and make sure that im making a real communication w someone. How do I recognize a dom and show up for them irl?

[Finchie40]

Most men are naturally dominant to begin with , so if you want a dominant man , you are going to have to be submissive. I love submissive girls’ and I love being dominant to her , not in a controlling way but a respectful way , the only time I might come off somewhat controlling is in the bedroom. Pretty much telling her what to do to please me. Outside the bedroom I just expect her to be respectful and faithful to me , but I don’t control her. I am just dominate when it comes to our relationship. Meaning if her intentions is to do something that could jeopardize our relationship, I will make it clear to her that I will not tolerate it and if she doesn’t like it , there is the door, don’t let it hit ya in the ass on the way out. I only stay loyal and faithful to a girl that chooses me like I choose her. If she lies to me , or backstabs me or betrays our relationship, I walk the other way. I expect her to be respectful the same way I am respectful to her.

[Effably]

Fetlife or your country's equivalent. Munches, meet up lunches, are common in a kink community for a less online approach.

Being upfront about what you want and like is typically key. Genuine Dom men rarely wear a plaque and are often not going to seem overtly dominant. As visible more aggressove dominance often, not always, comes from insecurity. It is as likely to be the mild mannered polite guy as it is to be the demanding bossy one.

Probably also helps to figure out if you want an off-switch to the dynamic and when and where you want it.

Lastly, please remember that any form of gifting away your submission is an action of entrusting someone your safety. If they are not consulting a medical professional before trying new out there things, run away from the psycho.

[HungTexan]

If you want a real dominant alpha male, just look at the way he interacts with others, the way he carries himself, the respect he shows others because he isn’t threatened, his confidence, his humility,. He takes care of his body and health, his sense of humor, and his personality that attracts others. While you may not detect this initially, he’s probably well endowed, and comfortable about sexual discussion and activity.

I agree you need to seek them out in person.

[Still-alive]

Just meet up with a guy to watch Pulp Fiction and when you get to the 'gimp part' proudly announce... thats what i want to do while looking at him seductively.

it'll work!

[Anonymous]

To begin with, you have to be worthy of one.

[Abbycado]

Sounds like you are looking a fetish site.

[Uglygaypoorcoward94]

alphas are rare, you might go for a sigma male

[In_Trance]

talk to them

[masterSir]

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