Guys would you be okay if your girlfriend went into modeling?

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My friend asked me if she could take some snaps of me, I’m thinking why not? Nothing extreme ofc, all safe stuff.  boyfriend says he doesn’t know, he’s probably okay with it, he needs to see the snaps first. Wbu?

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't personally date a girl in the modeling industry. They become reliant on validation from others. Also, there's a quote...

"Men are salesmen and women are marketers. That's why in a relationship men should stop pitching and women should stop advertising."

Women don't approach men much. It's usually men that do that. Women put themselves in scenarios to GET approached. Models are a prime example of that. They have inboxes flooded with desperate men and some might entice them.

If I get into a fight at home with my model partner, she's more likely to say "Fuck him I have thousands of guys waiting for a chance to be with me." Then leaves me. It's not a matter of not trusting her. But I don't want my partner to be constantly tempted by shiny object syndrome.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Modeling isn’t a bad thing at all but it depends on what kind of modeling not all modeling is pornographic or underwear modeling. If it was something like that we would definitely have different values so we wouldn’t be compatible.

But it is really a insult for career models who aren’t degenerate low lives. To have some weirdos basically taking over calling themselves models because they have a OF and post photos with their Starbucks cup. Like come on

dustybiker2 · Accepted Answer

My sister was chased by modeling companies straight through her teens and into twenties. Stopped in stores by a scout one time. She was smart enough to know that cut throat business was not worth it emotionally or financially.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

I've seen individuals in this industry whose partners were FINE with their career choices and schedules while others got too possessive and jealous every step of the way. It just depends on the individuals in question.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Exploring a modeling adventure, are we? 😏 Communication is key here! Your boyfriend might just need some clarity to feel comfortable. Sharing your excitement and setting boundaries can help. Remember, this could be a fabulous opportunity to express yourself and boost confidence. Just ensure everyone’s on the same page and dive into those glamorous snaps with confidence! 📸💃

Finchie40 · Answer

Absolutely , if she isn’t doing anything too extreme , I dated a few models before , and it didn’t bother me at all, I actually enjoyed her modeling and it was actually more of a turn on , knowing she was coming into my arms

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

Why not?  My wife used to model too when she was younger, I am fine with it and I like models in general - many of my friends are.

LONERLONLEY666 · Answer

If your having fun okay, if you take it seriously its a bit of a turn off unfortunately it can be looked at as conceded, also girls tend to always want the feeling of being wanted, and if that leans into by other men aswell, or just wanting to be seen, it turns me off personally because it begs the question, just feeling wanted by me isn't good enough? Just me seeing you isn't good enough? Just rubs the wrong way even if you're the most beautiful girl in the world

Chartreux · Answer

I would like to be a model... shame nobody asks me.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'd like to be a photographer/cosplay outfit designer for my future wife and I (if I ever find the one to marry).

Revealing/sexy clothing for her in the pic is ok as long as I'm in the photo with her and I get to wear something cool looking like a ninja, barbarian, or wizard outfit.

At that point its just advertising our fashion brand as a couple.

glennos89 · Answer

In general most guys want their girlfriend exclusively to them alone. Therefore most guys wouldn't want their girlfriend to be a model because it feels to them like they have to share their girlfriend with the whole world. It's the exact opposite of being exclusively for him

PandaEyeAmy · Answer

Modelling for some photos for a friend’s photography is fine! Nothing major at all. I did the same thing and did some modelling before. It’s fun, creative and artistic. I say go for it and tell your boyfriend it’s nothing to worry about

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

I've dated a few models and it's not very interesting other than their IG photos looked nothing like how they looked IRL.

Anonymous · Answer

If you're a beauty and you present yourself well, I'd be happy see you shine in the way you like and fits you well. As in it doesn't affect you, but is just another part of you then.. Why not 😃

Nikki1989 · Answer

You should never let any man control you in that way.

Cormac995 · Answer

Depends. If they're just modeling like pretty dresses that's one thing. If they're doing like underwear shots or showing a ton of skin, I'd probably get uncomfortable with it.

Kelley1 · Answer

Why would it even matter? It would be a part-time thing with no more than a handful of modeling gigs in a year.

Miristheiss · Answer

I would have never dated a model seriously. That is a career I would have avoided in a serious partner.

LiamS95 · Answer

Yes if she's really up for the hectic schedule of a model

Joshydavid25 · Answer

As long as it's not anything crazy, I wouldn't mind it.. Especially if it's something along the lines of what you're doing..

lilBigPotato · Answer

It's just a few photos with a friend, what's there to think about it?

HungTexan · Answer

Sure. Why not? It’s a tough profession, but I see nothing wrong with it.

RavVid · Answer

There are different classes of models. The girls in porn are called models.

exitseven · Answer

Itwould be okay with me as long as there was no naked stuff/

knottyguy · Answer

I wouldn't see anything wrong with it and would be proud that my girlfriend was that attractive and charismatic

DrPepper12 · Answer

I'd encourage it 1000% Ik she's 🔥 and the world should too!

Staximus · Answer

Your boyfriend doesn't own you, do whatever you want

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I am looking for a model type woman. I just want her to pursue her dreams and goals.

Anonymous · Answer

No problem, but I'm into sporty girls, so it's not very likely that she would went into modeling.

Professor-college · Answer

I would be worried about the modeling industry taking advantage of her but other than that I'm going in mind I'd support her

sawno · Answer

If its not the erotic kind

Raeraecumslut · Answer

They should we are meant to be looked at for guys to dnjiy

robocop666 · Answer

well most instagram models are hot and I want them so ok

trumpfan17 · Answer

Ultimately, I'd let her do what she wants, but I'd be uneasy.

Anonymous · Answer

waste of time and making life difficult after become model... famous can be but... cannot feel pleasant mind plus long time happiness ☺️

Smf1989 · Answer

Yes I would be ok with it

Oldschool1981 · Answer

I once dated a prostitute, so this is tame

Alex-Snow · Answer

Sure... why not?

MysticDevice · Answer

I don't see why not. A gig is a gig.

Agape93 · Answer

Idgaf

MikeRJ · Answer

It would be fine with me.

nawtee_me · Answer

I am good, I trust her

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, if it's classy conventional stuff

hello4433 · Answer

Nope

Abdul17w · Answer

No problem but if my wife then no.

IknowthatIdontKnow09 · Answer

Why not

Godlord · Answer

Naaaaaaah

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