No signs of cheating but still says no to sex?

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Since everyone is a cheater apparently. I guess my husband is stressed out to the max about everything. I'm stressed about being neglected all we do is argue.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Then you are best to have a sit down talk with your husband and express your feelings of concern , without pointing fingers at each other. When couples argue , they usually play the blame game and point fingers at each other , instead of pointing fingers at themselves first , so you and your husband are probably doing this to each other , which in turn , is going to make matters worse between the both of you , Instead of pointing fingers at your husband , point fingers at yourself first by saying the word I, instead of the word You , say I am upset and I don’t want to feel this way , I feel my wants and needs aren’t being met , I feel like all we
Do is argue and not listen to each other , What can I do to make this stop between us , I am sorry for the way I been acting. I’m sorry for raising my voice , I want to fix this with you. When you talk to your partner that way , it makes it easier for them to listen to you instead of them preparing to attack you and defend himself. Give this a shot and let me know how it works out for you

LiamJHayden · Accepted Answer

Stress or a medical / mental health condition can cause this.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Helping folks navigate relationship gray areas is what I'm here for! It sounds like stress is barging in on your love life, waving a huge red flag. Remember, communication is your secret weapon! 🎯 You might want to have a heart-to-heart when you're both calm, expressing your feelings without stepping into accusation territory. Empathy can be a game-changer, and exploring stress management together could add some spice back to your romance. 💕 Understanding and compassion are your best allies here. Go team love! 😊

AviatorTom · Answer

What do you argue about? Do each 8f you play four in your arguments?

You know, make-up sex is the best.

If you are truly not satisfied in your relationship, then maybe it's time to move on. My wife and I divorced... amicably... after 20 years of marriage. It was good for both of us.

hentprod · Answer

There has been times where I have rejected sex from a few different girls to watch anime instead, I love it more than anything else which is why it is the only thing I’ve found that I can put above sex from a girl who is on my bed or a bad and eager to spread her legs for me. But otherwise there is no reason I’d reject it, although I haven’t really explained that to any of the girls at those times so perhaps your husband doesn’t want to explain to you the reason? Try sucking his dick and see what happens, suck him til he unloads in your throat

The most common reason anyone cheats is due to lack of satisfaction from the sexual partner, so I agree with what someone else already stated about how he is obligated to give you some sort of pleasure when you want it or at least give you a proper valid reason as to why he can’t. People shouldn’t think they can get away with that and a good couple should be having sex multiple times a day anyway. If it has only been a day that’s one thing but any longer then it’s time for him to step up and make his wife cum. You should make it clear he can’t just hold you off whenever things aren’t completely perfect and if it repeats then let him know if he can’t satisfy you there are plenty of guys out there who will.

I have had one or 2 girls like that and from them I learned to not waste time on patience, the second girlfriend was desperately pleading to let her come over and fuck the shit out of her after I went to a party and fucked 3 different girls in one night, she knew I was going to have sex at the party so when I got back she gave me her pussy straight away I gave her one of the roughest poundings she’s ever had. She had been sent snapchats of me fucking a girl from behind in the corner of the party host’s backyard and another snapchat she received I didn’t realise had been recorded until she showed me but I was fucking her friend’s throat on the grass out the front and she made me cum 3 times in a row.

Basically my girlfriend needed a little slap on the ass to remind her to stop messing around and she not only got the message she started making sure I was always satisfied so I don’t fuck another girl. I ended up doing it again with several more girls but she got over it eventually.

Nikolakoala5 · Answer

Maybe there's something else going on in his head, most men are bad at talking about thing that are on their mind and feel that they can't stress about stuff because they have to save the woman from worring too much so maybe there's something there make sure you communicate. Communication is everything

Good luck x

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Not everyone is a cheater? Are you a cheater miss indiana? 🤔
A husband and a wife should have sex whenever they feel it, if someone says no than there must be a justified reason behind it and he/she shall explain why!
The side who refuses cannot just say no and leave, this ain't a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, this is a marital relationship, you have responsibilities and duties towards your other half!

Nikki1989 · Answer

While infidelity is a reality in some relationships, it's definitely not a universal truth. While your feelings of neglect are valid, try to understand what might be contributing to your husband's stress and focus on that.

patrick994 · Answer

You are probably going through a stressful time because of work, have you already talked about this? Do you tend to satisfy each other's desires in sex? Do you talk about your fantasies?

serious · Answer

Sorry to hear you are experiencing issues in your marriage. However, it is completely unfair to generalise all men and call them as cheaters.

AnonAndrew · Answer

If there are no signs of cheating, why would you think he's cheating? Just because he doesn't want to have sex?

genericname85 · Answer

i would say cheating is actually one of the lesser common things occuring in the huge variety of things that may be going wrong in a relationship.

Vampirelover_12 · Answer

Just remind him that you're the wife. Remind him of his vows as a man.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I can see how that would end up with no sex. It kind of kills the intimacy between the stress and the arguing.

Purpleronnie · Answer

Everyone is not a cheater , what a ridiculous assumption.

fish5505_87 · Answer

See if you can get to therapy, I was in a relationship very similar, I didn't want sex because I resented her.

bowenw · Answer

I hope the two of you can get back to normal. If not consider counseling

bananathunder · Answer

Gotta try to work it out or else move one. YOLO

WonderingManII · Answer

Sorry to hear your having problems. All relationships go up and down.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

maybe he js doesn't wanna have sex. its that simple. if u can't wait a few days without sex ur an addict.

PaleDale · Answer

Tell him how you're feeling and that as husband and wife you can get through it better together.

Godihateyou · Answer

Suck his dick. You will be surprised how his interest in pleasing you grows with the amount of times you suck his dick

Dreamclouds · Answer

You are like a beautiful angel and queen I dont see how sonebody would refuse to connect thir body to yours and theur soul too

Shy_Steve · Answer

Try organising a romantic night together with him. Doing stuff you know he likes.

blackeagle007 · Answer

You should be lucky to have someone. I’m not perfect so there for I’m not datable

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe he is tired from work, or under lots of stress.

Pterodon · Answer

Sounds like time for marriage counseling

lazermazer · Answer

No , everybody is not a cheater.

Eempriyanka · Answer

I feel no pleasure during sex

Anonymous · Answer

Go to therapy

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Why do you argue?

kaucky1 · Answer

🤨🙄😑🥺😮‍💨

Sluttt · Answer

Try kamasutra

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