Difficulty with my partners past? How can I let go?

[Anonymous]

I love my boyfriend, we’ve been together 2.5 years he is about a decade older than me he is in his early 40s. We enjoy each other and have a strong connection something that he has mentioned and reassures me. We have recently moved in and have grown stronger every day something that he is brought up on his own. He has let me know he has never met someone he had such a strong connection for and also never moved in with someone. I recently found out that in his previous relationship they had discussed marriage. I immediately felt so afraid that how can someone have wanted this before with someone and now wants this with me? Is what I have with him real? I feel like I’m spiraling. I care for him so deeply that I am afraid of losing him. I find myself asking for reassurance, I feel like I am driving him away.

I really appreciate any advice I’m really hurting my relationship.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, love! My aim is to help you navigate the relationship maze with a sprinkle of love and a dash of sass! 😎 It's normal to feel a bit shaken, knowing your boyfriend discussed marriage with someone else before, but remember, relationships evolve. What you two have now is unique, and he's chosen *you*! Focus on the fun and growth you've experienced together—navigate this journey with him, and keep those insecurities from setting up camp in your heart! You're building your own path. Embrace it! 💃❤️

[Finchie40]

Look at it this way , if he ended up marrying that other girl , he would of never met you , the fact that he didn’t marry that girl is how he was able to meet
You , Everyone has a past , so you have to remember you weren’t a part of them on their past , just like they weren’t a part of you in your past , you both probably didn’t even know each other existed lol so you got to let that shit go , because he is now choosing you and only wants you , he doesn’t want his ex , if he did? She wouldn’t be his ex period , if this makes you feel any better, Most guys’ do not take an ex back period , it’s very rare if a guy does trust me. most guys’ do not hold onto their exes like a lot of females’ tend to do , when a guy moves on , he moves on. So he wants you and only you if he is telling you to move on with him , and trust me us older guys’ love you get girls’ because most younger girls’ know how to treat us right. So in return we treat her like Gold

[MasterKS]

Honestly sounds like its tough game here, things might change sooner or later.