If your partner is consistently bad in bed despite taking all of your advice and trying to improve consistently, would you stay with them?

[HawkPerception]

Yes

No

[lorenzomichael]

Yes, of course you stay with them. Look although sex is a part of the relationship it doesn’t mean the whole relationship is bad based on that. However if that’s all you’re looking for is good sex then just maybe you need to check yourself. You probably shouldn’t be in a relationship if you’re that worried about 45 minutes of sex. You might only be looking for some ass that’s all and that’s OK too..
Better yet why don’t you just tell that person what you want done to you and how you want it done.

[Qwerrtty]

I would cause everything isn't just based on sex

[DishLady]

If they're "bad in bed" after taking their partner's advice doesn't that mean the partner is also bad in bed? 😂

[HawkPerception]

Nope. Being bad in bed is an individual thing. If you're bad at giving head, it doesn't make the other person bad. If you have poor stamina or don't move properly in positions, it doesn't mean your partner is too.

[alice55]

Yes I don’t think sex is much important

[warlock83]

I kind of did something like this, but it was for medical reasons. Long story short, my ex-girlfriend and I have MS (Multiple Sclerosis), and hers is worse, and trying to have sex with her would take time and leave me limp after a while. She never helped or even tried to help. We have had sex only two times in our 6 year relationship. A couple of times she performed fellatio, but I never finished. I was afraid she was going to choke if she accidentally swallowed.

[queenofcardio]

I wouldn't consider it as a deal breaker. Lots of practice, I'm willing to wait to figure it out

[HawkPerception]

Yeah, but I'm saying no amount of practice gets them to improve. Sometimes there's a natural ability that's missing.

[queenofcardio]

Haha then I'd suggest to him that we use my vibrator together. Maybe a demonstration can be helpful 😅

[queenofcardio]

That can also backfire but it hasn't yet

[Smegskull]

Compared to righty, everyone is "bad in bed".