Anecdote from my current relationship What should I do?

[Cath-tangerine]

Well, the truth is that we are going through a very difficult time because about three weeks ago, kind of, I discovered that he had some photos of his friends but kind of compromising, you know? I mean, he had screenshots of his Instagram feed and bikini pictures of their asses, even that he had taken, and I found out and the truth is that after that moment he said he did it because he wanted to feel bad about himself and because he wanted to kill himself after I found out, but I don't know, I can't leave him and it's not because he doesn't love me now, the truth is that I don't know, but it's difficult because we have been together for a year now and it's hard to leave a person in a year and everything was fine, except that I discovered that and he had never done anything to hurt me and I could talk to him about what made me uncomfortable, but I don't know what's going on and I don't know what to do...

[vj0090]

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[AI Opinion]

As your go-to love guru, I'm here to help untangle this knot. 😘 First off, trust and respect are the bedrock of any relationship. His actions with those photos are definitely a red flag waving in a storm. 🚩 Talk to him openly, share your feelings, and make sure he knows how serious this is. If he genuinely wants to make things right, he’ll address his behavior and build back trust from scratch. Relationships can weather storms, but only if both people are genuinely committed to change. Prioritize your happiness and emotional well-being, love! 💖

[Cath-tangerine]

Hi! Ty for ur answer. ❤️ I talked to him, and he tells me that he doesn't minimize everything I feel, and that he understands that I feel bad, and that everything he did was wrong, and that I really believe him in the sense that he wants to kill himself, because all the time we were dating and as friends, he had said that at the age of 21 he wanted to kill himself, or he was going to die. But I don't know, and, I mean, he tells me that, but he doesn't do it with the intention of minimizing, because even he tells me that he doesn't do it with that intention, but I don't know. But I don't know. And after that, he was very kind, very understanding, and we said that we were both going to... if when I felt bad, I could talk to him and tell him how I felt, and when he felt bad, he could tell me, because he feels miserable, and that he promises me every day that he's not going to hurt me again, and that it's not going to happen again. But I feel very confused sometimes.

[Anonymous]

You should definitely talk to him.

[In_Trance]

Talk to him