Nice girls finish last because they're fake and people pleasers. Men see through the facade. Prove me wrong?

[CarolinaCutie5]

[HawkPerception]

I think when it comes to girls, nice girls finish first. They're girls who are younger, beautiful, feminine, wear dresses often, aren't promiscuous, and care about their man. Those girls are rare and wifed up asap. The girl in the image is a girl I'd avoid. I see a ton of makeup, straightened hair (showing she's extremely bougie and entitled), and is promiscuous with her clothing. This is the reason I'm swiping left on 95% of girls on dating apps. It's all the same red flags I want to avoid.

Nice guys are the ones who finish last. Women are born with value they have to protect. Men are born with no value that they have to build.

[aquamint]

As someone who is all the things you described at first, the only thing that doesn’t apply to me would be wearing dresses. There just very uncomfortable for me. Yet I never finish first

[HawkPerception]

So you're physically attractive, young (in your early 20s), feminine in the way you speak and act (not loud and obnoxious, but rather calm and sweet), don't wear a ton of makeup?

If you're not into wearing dresses that puts you down 2 points. And if you're liberal and think men are oppressing you in modern society, that puts you down like 5-7 points.

Would you say you're more liberal?

[aquamint]

I wouldn’t say I’m a liberal, nor do I even wear any makeup

[Summeroflove]

It’s the same with most nice guys really. There are genuinely nice good people out there but they tend to be more rough around the edges and have been through a lot of shit frankly so a lot of fake people see them as assholes because they can call them out.

Some younger men do fall for these type of women but they learn who they really are in time. Women who are after one thing but pretend to be another.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some love dust on your perspective. 🌟 While "nice girls" might sometimes come across as overly accommodating, labeling them as fake might be a bit harsh. It's all about understanding and appreciating genuine kindness. Not all kindness hides an ulterior motive. We fall in love with authenticity and the courage to be yourself, no masks needed. But who doesn't love a little spice with their sugar, right? 😉

[Chazmatazz269]

Not all, but some. There are definitely people who don’t feel like they can be accepted and loved for who they are. Those people often end up putting on a front or playing a role of sorts. Even if they get who they want, they don’t get what they really want. When they play the role, they are still not accepted and loved for who they are. Revealing their true nature runs the risk of hurting someone and losing them in the process. It’s completely unfulfilling if you’re not a sociopath.

[DryGermanGuy]

This might be a situation where I am lost in translation or at least would be helped with quotation marks around the nice. Because we guys absolutely like genuine nice girls, instead of those that bring drama, antagonism or disinterest with them.

[capriVib]

This saying should actually be "nice guys finish last." Women are actually more sensitive to these behaviors. Men are not very selective about which women they will date, but of course fake behavior eventually blows up, because in the end, the mask has to come off. No one can keep up the role of being good or pretending to be someone they’re not forever.

[DonaldDarko]

Actually, men go for nice girls, the sweet girl next door will melt a man's heart. I mean tough men police chiefs, military officers. They'll die for those girls.

[CarolinaCutie5]

They do not lol 😆 they go for women who are assertive with self respect. Not miss nicey nicey who tells every man yes

[DonaldDarko]

Actually, no we don't.

[Avcfhcic]

Nice guys finish further last because girls don't like security and ease, they prefer someone who keeps them on their toes and slight bad boy side

[Ariesman81]

Dating is inherently a selfish endeavor for both. Just cause we know the truth doesn't mean we can't play along. Besides, a people pleaser sounds good right about now.

[WonderingManII]

I'm not going to try and prove you wrong. Posts like this make me wish there were more truly kind women to be with.

[DrPepper12]

No. Nice girls finish because they find nice guys who make sure they cum first.

[Cidknee]

Who's that? You?

Nah, nice people may finish last for a while but they end up light-years ahead of the nasty ones.

[Cidknee]

I've encountered a dew "nice girls" who were actually very mean. I came to like the average girl. Sometimes nice and naughty.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Nice girls end up with high quality men and children who love them.

[CarolinaCutie5]

No they don't lol 😂 they are the pump and dumps of the world.

[seeyounexttuesday]

Literally the exact opposite

[Ironic_Method]

I think there are plenty of nice girls out there in good relationships.

[Anonymous]

I think most of them are genuinely nice, but people pleasers are usually not my type.

I prefer dominant girls, and they are usually not "nice girls".

[RedInnocent69]

Nah, we’re not that bright, and easily manipulated, especially by cute girls who put on people pleaser facades

[Hellraiser1984]

Nice girls are the best. Bad girls are horribly overrated.

[dudeinohio]

some girls are just really nice and have no facade.

[LiamJHayden]

Some nice girls, like nice guys, might be genuine but truly boring.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not all nice girls fake it

[Danny_dan92]

Nice girls finish last?

[AngryCarl2]

Who's to say what's fake and what's real?

[Anonymous]

I’m a 304 girl too

[CarolinaCutie5]

@sandman731 still trying 🤣🤣awe bless your heart. I hurt ur feelings so bad with the truth that u just.. obsess over me. Oh well lol I'm not sorry lol

[Twalli]

Why would nice girls be fake?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thats not true some guys like good girls

[MasterKS]

Bad girls bend down easily.

[Anonymous]

We all see through your facade you catfish