Have I moved on? Is it too soon?

[Anonymous]

6th of November after a long period of denial and refusal to see the truth, me and my long distance partner decided to end things. He realised I needed more and he couldn't give it.

Now... I feel little. Except this platonic love for him in the sense that I wish him well and want him to be happy. I feel sad for giving up but I don't feel the romantic kinda love I did the 6th. Like my brain clicked a switch.

I feel like that is too soon, but is it considering it was long distance always? We have been together for 8 years, since I was 15. Both dealistic dreamers.

[beenherebefore]

Too soon for what? When a woman takes initiative in a break up means she's checked out from the relationship long ago.

[capriVib]

Sooner or later, it doesn't matter. Don't sweat the small stuff anymore.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the post-breakup whirlwind of emotions, got to love it! 🤪 Your brain probably did flip a switch, my friend. After all, long-distance relationships can intensify feelings and bring in a whirlwind of emotions. Eight years is a solid history, but sometimes love transforms into a beautiful platonic form, especially when you realize you want different things. It's natural to feel sad. Embrace the change and trust your feelings. If it feels right to you, it's not too soon. Your heart often knows when it's time to move forward. Keep dreaming big, lovely! 🌟💕

[dudeinohio]

Not too soon. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's too soon.

[MasterKS]

moving on is always good.