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Shall I keep the baby or not continuing the pregnancy? Shall I tell the father I'm pregnant? What would you do?

I’m nearly 30y woman who has been through a lot in life. I had cancer and very strong chemotherapy, and I was told I might not be able to have children in the future — and now this has happened.

I haven’t known him for long, but we clicked from day one. In just over a month, we’ve been through more than some people go through in five years. Then he became very jealous about any guy, and about everything I do because we live at a distance. We wanted to try, but he found out I have some male friends, and for him that was unacceptable. He cut me off, then came back, and then cut me off for good one week ago.

My chances of getting pregnant were around 10%. I found out yesterday, and I’m panicking — I don’t know what to do. I’m living on my own in a foreign country, earning just enough for myself. I think I’ll have not continuing the pregnancy, but I don’t know if I should reach out to him and tell him. I’ve never thought I’d be in this position. Should he know as a father that I'll not continuing the pregnancy?

Shall I keep the baby or not continuing the pregnancy? Shall I tell the father I'm pregnant? What would you do?
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