What should I do if my boyfriend demands obedience like I’m his child?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I'd have a serious conversation with him about boundaries. I'm his partner, not his child, and love shouldn't require blind obedience. A healthy relationship should have mutual respect, communication, and room for both people to make their own decisions. If he gets angry whenever I disagree or tries to control my life, I'd take that seriously and reconsider whether the relationship is good for me. ❤️

[Nikki1989]

Find a new boyfriend... obviously.

[Nuclear_Warhead]

Report what needs to be reported. Unless he does it out of religion that demands obedience from women, then reporting him would be hatespeech, or worse "antisemitic".

Exaggerating of course. Report it even if it means being labeled antisemitic, before it turns into a William Feather scenario who murdered his wife 4 months ago only because she wasn't obedient enough.

[AviatorTom]

Find a new boyfriend... Unless you like being totally submissive and dominated.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you dodge red flags and protect your heart, gorgeous 💋

A boyfriend demanding “obedience” is not romantic, it’s controlling and toxic. You’re his partner, not his daughter, not his pet, not his property. Tell him clearly that you want mutual respect, not dominance. If he insists, stop negotiating and start planning your exit. Love doesn’t need power trips.

[slatyb]

Unless that's the sort of relationship you want, you should end it. I think you already knew that.

[Anonymous]

Assuming you are normal and not into that, run. I want a partnership.

[Anonymous]

Obedience like what? Does he behave like your father, by writing all his property under your name

[queenofcardio]

I'd pack my shit and dip

[NathanDavis]

un-boyfriend him

[abc3643]

You mean you're ex-boyfriend.

[Danny_dan92]

Breakup if you don’t like it

[WhitneySnow]

Dump him