My partner was sexting other women and blamed me—what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Dump him immediately , why be in a relationship with someone that blames you for their selfish actions and behaviors? He is blaming you because he can’t accept the fact that he is a selfish POS person that only cares about himself , he doesn’t care about you at all, because if he did , he wouldn’t be sexting other girls’ period. He is sexting other girls’ because you are just a convenience to him , not a priority , do yourself a favor and dump his ass and find yourself a guy that values you and appreciates you and prioritizes you , the same way you do for him , never settle for less than that period , especially if You want to experience a loving long lasting happy relationship with someone. You are wasting your time if you think your boyfriend actually loves and cares about you , he just loves what he can receive from you without giving back the same in return. I dump girls’ all the time that try to treat me as a convenience , that do shady things behind my back with other men , because they are a waste of time , because there is no trust and respect for each other whatsoever , selfish people are not made for relationships period , your boyfriend is a selfish POS person period.

[AviatorTom]

Say goodbye to your partner. There are much better partners out there.

[Melody90]

I'm sorry you're going through that. His decision to sext other women was his responsibility, not yours. Blaming you is a way of avoiding accountability. You deserve honesty, respect and loyalty. Don't let him make you question your worth or feel guilty for something you didn't do. Take a step back, think about what you need, and remember that you don't have to stay with someone who repeatedly breaks your trust.

[lilBigPotato]

Get rid of him and find someone decent who respects you.

[OneViewpoint]

Blamed you for what? Are you a cold fish / asexual? Are you not giving him reasonable attention? You're not married. He can simply move on if he wants. Call him on his bullshit if you're not depriving him of intimacy.

[bowenw]

Consider going for couple's counseling if he is will and you think there is a chance your relationship with him can be saved, and you are interested in saving it. Otherwise do the same thing he does with other men, or move on.

[MrChinaski]

Leave. I actually couldn't care if my partner was sexting. But if someone blames me for their actions that's a hard red line for me.

[Nikki1989]

Men rarely take the blame for anything. Dump him.

[NathanDavis]

find a good partner, instead... one that's not a cheater

[WhitneySnow]

Dump him. That’s definitely not your fault. It’s his.

[Danny_dan92]

Here’s an idea








Break up

[Iron_Man]

Why would your partner blame you for not doing enough?

[Asker]

He said I don’t send him enough nudes or don’t have enough sex

[Iron_Man]

Forget that

[Anonymous]

Immediately dump him? Sexting is obviously cheating.

[Anonymous]

That's manipulation right there, stand up for your self

[LiamJHayden]

Move on from that nonsense and find someone who treats you well.

[jahaims]

Have self respect and move on obviously. Sad you don't know that.

[EmmaMary]

Yet another story for the waste paper bin.

[slatyb]

Find another partner.

[slatyb]

This isn't even a close decision. He's gaslighting you and it will only get worse over time.

[Dargil]

Did he tell you why?

[ElenaLena]

Run away…

[Thathaabc]

Mulheres também fazem isso!

[Agape93]

Leave him

[Anonymous]

That's fucked up

[Anonymous]

Break up.

[In_Trance]

Dump them