Man, You don't have to be shy. why to be shy anyway? It's the life keep it simple and it will be simple, I almost fuc*ed up million time because of shyness, nut I've found it. keep it simple, self confidence yourself...
Try to make yourself more confidence and you must know that girls are just humans not gods or angels, so you don't have to be shy.
Put it in your mind, Maybe your chance with girls will vanish because of your shyness, so give it a shot and don't be shy.
Just give me one reason to be shy and not to be outgoing, You will not find any answer.
It's all about you man, think in it and you will find it very very very very easy and simple.
THEY ARE JUST HUMANS,
u More than a few of my female GAG friends have used "cute", "adorable", etc. to describe shy types. I very adamently disagree with the anonymous user who describes shy guys as "socially retarded". I am shy but I know how to act around people.
At any rate, some do, yes... link
some do, some don't.. just depends on the guy and girl in question.. honestly it boils down to one on one talking.. if a guy's too afraid to say anything, it's not gonna work, but if he can carry on a convo with her.. it could work.. most shy guys are only shy at first.. after an outgoing gal gets to know them more, they open up easier.. it'd work in that case.. so it varies on the gal, if she's into the more quiet type or not.. just because she's outgoing doesn't mean she only goes for outgoing guys.. it all depends on how the guy is with HER and if he can open up to her and if she's willing to push a little to get him to open up.. hope I helped ;)
There's a big difference between cute shyness (e.g. when a cute girl looks at you, you blush and look away) and between a person who doesn't talk to anyone or even look people in the eyes because he has social anxiety disorder, resulting in having their mom as a best friend.
So if you're more of the second type, you'll go unnoticed. If you're the first type you just need a pinch of confiedence.
Usually not no. It gets so annoying always having to be the one to talk, come up with conversation, and feel responsible for the awkward silences. I get exhausted. The guys that are just as talkative/outgoing as me allow me a chance to relax, for it to be 50/50 for once.
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Are you shy or introverted? Big difference. If you're shy and you're happy being that way just be who you are and be confident in yourself, that's what will get attraction. If you want to open up more that all goes back to you an how much you are willing to push yourself out of your comfort zone socially. As for the girl, I say go for it and see if things work out between the two of you, it would be a great learning experience either way.
Depends. It doesn't matter if you're shy or outgoing, you can attract a girl but only if she's looking for someone like you. That is physically or if there;s chemistry there etc. But she has to notice you are around so you have to break a bit of that barrier, be near her, try to say hi even if you can't look at her or have to run off afterward just say hello!
I wouldn't say I go for shy guys but more introvert guys. I am very outgoing and would talk to the wall if I thought it would talk back but I used to be painfully shy so I know that just because you don't say much doesn't mean you don't have anything to say. Shy guys can be confusing though cause its quiet hard to figure out if they're actually interested or just being polite and
they can come across as being a bit aloof or stand offish.
Honestly 98% of the time I don't notice they're around. Like in a class or on campus etc I'm not going to notice them. If it's a group of less than say 10 then I'd notice and have been know to go try to talk to them and involve them - because I used to be painfully shy before high school, I know how it is. But really, any type of large group or party or class? No. I'm not going to notice them or realize they're alive so I can't exactly 'go for them'.
I'm extremely out-going and I ONLY go for shy guys... Out-going and loud guys get on my nerves. To me, they're usually just friend-material, while shy guys are so mysterious and unpredictable, which I find rather attractive.
Honestly? No. Not as I know of. Atleast me myself I like to think I'm pretty out going, social and easy to have an (fun) two hour long convo with. About anything and nothing and I would like someone talkative and outgoing too... Me no want a socially retarded guy.
Hi, I don't want to make you think that this stereotype is accurate BUT @ this day and age, I, myself have never met outgoing girls dating shy guys. Girls normally see that as a 'weakness'; girls usually want a guy who is willing to stand up for themselves (and of course,her). However, if an outgoing girl is looking for a guy like you, trust me, she will make sure she gets you. Try not to let your personality define who you are because you are more than that. Plus, try to find sum1 who is looking for 'love' and not a 'hero".Good luck!
i find myself attracted to some shy guys, yes, but I assume they prefer shy girls as well so I usually just leave them alone.
im pretty talkative and loud so I think id annoy the sh*t out of them. lol and they definitely don't ask me out or anything, so it never goes as far as dating.
I am both extroverted and introverted. There are at times where I can be loud and obnoxious and there are times where I can be quiet and go to my little cave. But most of the time I love to be outgoing. Why? Because being quiet and introverted is boring. I am most of the time independent but I can spend time with my friends if they want me to tag along. I am a little nervous/ shy when it comes to talking to girls but I can look at them in the eye once I talk to them.
Well, if you're "shy" you can't really expect outgoing girls.
Anyways, I find that shy is sometimes too much to work with. It takes 2 to tango and I don't wanna have to pull on someone just to have a conversation. I usually like a balance.
You seen Jersey Shore? Look at Snooki and Jionni. She's the most outgoing girl on the show and he is a really quiet guy. I don't understand it as I would think someone like her would go for an outgoing guy like herself.
The type that I go for isn't usually shy, and I'm pretty out going. However, as long as the guy can confidently talk to me I don't think it would bother me too much.
Outgoing girls can definitely like shy guys, the only thing is I believe as being a outgoing girl myself is if I talk to a shy guy he might get a little 'shepish' because I'm so loud. At the end of the there's no reason for people to fear if there too shy or too outgoing just be yourself and that should enough, hope I helped a little x
yes my friend. you just need to try approaching them, and you'll see in yourself how will going to be successful the date of an outgoing girls with shy guys.
Outoig girls often are atttracted to shy guys. They wonder what is behind that persona. I've known guys to fake that persona just to get the ougtoing girl inrigued.
As much as it's said, "opposites attract," it's not the rule. It can go both ways. I like a guy who's shy about most things but I'm pretty extroverted.
Yes it totally does! I am extremely outgoing & have the hugest crush on this really shy guy, who I am working on cracking out of his shell to make him comfortable around me at least.
Is everyone really seriously saying no, of course an outgoing girl can like a shy guy!
Most girls prefer confident guys, it's probably the most important thing to have. You don't have to be super outgoing, you just have to be confident enough to hold a conversation.
ya but it'd be hard because an outgoing girl is constantly talking to people and on the on go in an social environment. and someone who's shy doenst normally feel as comfortable around a bunch of people so I wouldn't wanna feel like I had to watch over him and make sure he's not feeling left out or awkward. like it could be a burden.
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