Questions: Relationships

Essentially love is what stimulates our mind and desires, while sex stimulates our sexual organs.

Agree or disagree?

Many people try to figure out what love is and all about but technically it’s going to be someone we find attractive and stimulates our minds whenever we talk to them and/or do things with them. They stimulate* us- more so than anyone else would. If we do a hobby with them or take a trip with them, we may find it more rewarding and engaging* when we experience it with them. They enhance the overall experience. Then the plus is that they’re attractive and the sex is fun and engaging with them as well. Liking them is what makes the sex better.

So love is somewhat and nothing short of: shared experiences with the person who stimulates us mentally more than any other person, and arouses us simultaneously.

Thoughts?

Do a Guy and a Gal have to *enjoy* talking to each other for love to even be considered/possible?

I know there’s people who talk to each other but know how to keep a conversation going. It made me wonder about couples who talk and seem to get along well but don’t seem to really be into each other.

I feel like if one or neither of them actually enjoy the exchanges in conversation, then it won’t be possible for them to love each other and saying that they do would be somewhat of a joke.

Thoughts?

Even if it was just a “friendly chat”?

Personally I don’t ever respond to any DMs from unknown people of the opposite gender. I don’t see it as cheating but I see it as unnecessary as it could open up doors to unwanted drama.

for example: if your partner and your friends had issues who would you side with (considering the issue is bad on both sides)

Or if you had to save one or the other from getting run over by a train