Why you should not base your relationship on lies - bible talk

[jennifer_bloom]

I have a lot of superficial people and dishonest people in my family and they are all single. One made over 2 million a year and graduated top of her class from an Ivy League school and it took her 9 years to find a husband and she ended up divorced within 8 years with 4 broken engagements since then. Guys keep agreeing to marry her and changing their minds and she isn’t fat, where’s a size 4 in clothing. She is a pathological liar.

My other cousin makes over 120,000 a year, maybe as high as 180,000 or 240,000 and has thousands of connections through his elite managerial position at a bank and he owns a house worth over a million dollars and he can’t find a wife. He is in his mid 40s and still has never been married. He lies to girls he dates cause he has no sense of loyalty.

My other cousin made over 3,000 Canadian dollars a day and was so pretty that she was hired as a news anchor in China and she was married for less than 7 years before her divorce with no kids and now mid 40s and single. She used to use guys for money and was extremely cruel - sometimes demanding 80% of their pay cheque when she was cheating on them with other guys.

I know three unintelligent girls from university. One enlisted in our school after flunking out of an engineering school she could not get a passing grade from and another never got As in any of their classes. Both girls were honest and got married before the age of 23. They were loyal to their friends and did not let popularity dictate who they end up with.

The bible says gifts gained through lying do not benefit; so a relationship built on lies will either self destruct or become toxic

[Shihab91]

I'm very sensitive to lies i hate even smallest lie , its make me insecure about what the other is hiding as well 🤦🏻‍♂️

[virtue2332]

Because it would be exhausting. Life is much more enjoyable when you are your most authentic self.