One of the reasons nearly all my friends are religious is that I prefer to socialize at church cause church people are less likely to worship culture idols. Like I once had an atheist yell at me for making light chewing noises when I ate my food because the way my jaw was shaped, it was hard for me to chew lettuce without making a noise. A Christian would never vilify you for making barely audible chewing noises when your eating your food.
My aunt and uncle hated me because they respected my cousin for her good looks and I said I thought she looked just like everybody else. My dad and aunt and uncle and all my cousins thought I was jealous of her because I suggested she was no more beautiful nor ugly than anybody else on the street and based on that they said I was a liar who made stuff up. A person who worships God, would not think your mentally ill if you look at a popular woman and do not care about how much or notice at all that she looks good by popular consensus.
My dad also talks about me like I’m a serial killer or drug dealer because I committed the crime of making a lower wage at my job and had the selfishness to only get a bachelors degree in university. In my family, an educated rapist gets invited to more parties than a God fearing Christian who only has a bachelors degree. My family socialized far more with a wealthy man who raped his 10 year old niece than they did with me because the rapist was rich and educated.