I learned when I was 19, that sometimes God would rather change your desires than grant you your desires. Like you might pray for a good looking football player to be your husband at 15 and at 40, pray for a doctor to be your husband instead.
Maybe when your 12; you pray to be a Victoria secret model and at age 20, you pray to be a teacher for city youth. Maybe at 20 you pray to be wealthy to impress men and at 40, you pray to be wise to serve woman like yourself.
I’m not saying God does not answer superficial desires such as a chiselled jaw or a fit body, but God wants you to be willing to put His interests above your own so when your willing to help those who are hurting and in need instead of partying while the church is volunteering, God will be willing to help you find a respectful and loving guy with a six pack stomach and a chiseled jaw line.