26, never had a girlfriend, got rejected often and i am still a virgin. Girls simply do not like me. I asked myself what is wrong with me but then I turned to Jesus and God to guide me through these stages. I have made it so far and have almost no impact about the fact, that I was never in a relationship because it is gods will for me to stay celibate forever. I believe in Jesus and God to guide me to do what I am bound to do.
I am probably preserved for someone special but if it doesn't happen, then it's still fine. I follow god as it is his very will for me to stay single.
No, I am not projecting my religion onto others. I keep it to myself and I ask here for other folks to talk to me about it. Am I the only one, who is being guided by god successfully through eternal celibacy?
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I wondered the same thing and even prayed for it once, it was the only prayer of mine (Not counting the request to an angel that came true) that got answered.
Instead of getting what i asked i got a clear message in the form of a song confirming he knows i am tired of waiting. Nothing else happened after that, nobody magically showed up and my luck did not increase.
This confirmed a few things to me, first of all they honor free will to the point they would never directly intervene. But also that i should hold on as its not the right time yet and i still need to grow. Which is true since i am not the best version i could be for her yet.
These things change you often in more ways then you realise. After all i would never have discovered true love if i had plenty of sex availible at middle school.
So keep improving on yourself and try to ask what you can do to improve (Realistically) so the type of girl you want finds you more appealing. I know the pain you feel but take it as an oppertunity to grow. You owe it to yourself.
It was me. I am content with my eternal singlehood. I don't *need* anyone, however i am not closed to relationship opportunities. Life is not about finding boys or girls after all. I can do things i like to have done other than finding a girlfriend. It is my very destiny.
I disagree, life should be about love in every form at least from the point of god since he is a being of love. Its why the text you posted comes across as scary to me since the thing it portraits is the exact opposite. Its why i dislike the concept of most religions because it goes against the fundamentals of what i believe god to be.
Its far more likely he wants you to focus on these connections, as deep connections are one of the common ways love for others starts to form. Keep in mind love doesn't have to fill desire as love and desire are complete opposites. The whole worshiping idea is satanic to me as only a being of desire would desire such a thing, where a being of love will want you to grow for your own good not for him and have the freedom and independence to act on your own will.
This can only lead me to conclude that your not destined to be lonely in a relationship sense. You are destined to love, but either you or your future partner is not ready for it yet.
I see. I respect your stance and i wish you luck. Perhaps you will be luckier than me in these regards but i will keep going and fulfill my tasks and fill the void in my life wherever it takes me. It will be my holy adventure :)
You're only 26, you have no idea whether God has someone for you. But yeah there's tons of people out there meant to stay single their whole lives. It's uncommon though
He probably has someone planned for you or want you to focus on your relationship with Him right now and the plans He has in store for you. Abraham didn't become a father till he was 100, I'm not saying God is going to make you wait that long, but I'm am saying when God feels the moment is right.. He will send someone.
@sawno yes people still live up to 100 but just not as much. God cut our years short because of sin, men could live up to be 600 back in the day cause God allowed it. People will role their eyes at this simply cause they don't believe and have no faith.
hey don't give up... but I not religious I am a social worker... I like to help people and in India many guys of you age are single... ... hey try for LDR (long distance relationship) it can help you cause. you can see many girls are looking for guys... hey I am malnourished so no girl talks to me but... I found a girl who would love me... and it s a LDR so she is not losing her virginity and I am not losing mine so it's good... LDR is very hard , you cannot touch one another , you can't hug her when she is sad... there are many problems with LDR but that the beauty of it... when you meet for first time you would be like crying to see you love for first time... that's the main reason for me to take a LDR... it's strong if two hearts are loyal. ... never lose hope... there are 2 billion people on earth and someone would love you...
Anything's possible in the future. I never dated girls in high school, because I didn't know what to say to them and I was just scared of them anyway. A few years later, things changed, I did a lot of growing up, and even though I was a virgin until I was 25, I met a girl a couple of years after that, and we got married. The interesting thing was, I wasn't actually out TRYING to get any action, it just happened along the way.
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Just stay single dude. At least you wouldn't have to deal with the drama and shit that comes with it. Can't get cheated on, lied to, and you won't break up with her since you ain't got a girlfriend. You don't need a girlfriend to be happy anyway, happiness and contentment comes from within yourself, not from the other person. Because if the other person decides to break up with you and leave you or if they had cheated on you, then there goes all your happiness along with them.
I would be happier if more women would take action if they are interested. But at the same time it isn't my loss If they won't. It's just important to have faith in you or in whatever drives you to happiness. Don't be dependent on the others for your own happiness. Life is more than about (the lack of) women and relationships.
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