How to deal with Toxic Strict Muslim Mom?

[Laraitta]

I really feel lost between family are most important shit and my life. She always tries to manipulate me and change my opinions. For her leaving Islam means you're evil... etc

Luckily for her I didn't leave Islam but I hate how filthy she thinks non Muslims are.

We have completely different values. She's so racist towards white & black by the way.

[OfDeath]

Ask her why leaving Islam is evil. Ask her what she thinks evil means. Why does she think that's what it means. Who told her that. How old was she. She won't admit it but she will eventually realise that she has been indoctrinated to hold a bias towards Islam. That indoctrination is being illogically transferred to you and is influencing your and her actions independently of whether or not the intention is truly good or evil. Islam itself is guilty of its fair share of evil.

[REDHOTLINE]

Classic ingnorant muslim mentality.
They never known their religion.
They never read their book kur-an
But they are the islam wise...
They known everything for the islam and sicience and the world. But they known nothing. They are blind and ignorant.
They only know from their religion press their girls closed their girls unhappy their girls torchin their girls. For them this is the islam. for their minds the god (Allah) wants this.
Commonly stupidizm..

[Laraitta]

It's even worse when a woman like my mom believes that women are weak and can't do nothing. Because she's weak herself. I'm sad that I have to talk like this about her. But enough is enough and she deserves it. She traumatized me for years until I finally recovered and kinda learned to stop her. She uses all her toxic ways to brainwash me back. I'm proud of myself for staying sane with such a Mom my dad even couldn't handle her he married a new woman. My mom spent her life trying to win him back. Sadly I grew up fatherless.

[Laraitta]

What could be worse than living with such a mom? Gonna move away again to live apart from here if she didn't stop.

[REDHOTLINE]

Your moms lifr was spending but if she is realy good person , why she want you will the same faith same life like her? I think her physicology not normal. If she wants your benefit and be good life she support you fir you have depending and happy life.
But she has do oppotite behaviors dont help you also tired you and she dont igradiate your religion on the contrary make you hate your religion. She is completely wrong

[Laraitta]

She could win Number 1 on narcissism. I gotta train myself not to talk to her & stay away from home as much as possible.

[Laraitta]

She thinks I'm not normal for disagreeing with her 🤣 narcissistic enough?

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes yes i know very well that eoman type 😀 be far of them the best option. you think very well

[Laraitta]

I realized you're Turkish. I'm glad you're not infected with our virus called "women hating"
I lived in UK onve but I prefer Turkey culture.

[REDHOTLINE]

Yes I am Türk and you are clever woman ☺ and thanks for your compliments. And sperate humans man woman black white etc. Stupids works/ job...

[bourgeisenafied]

2023 Erdogan will go with the support of new generation, and we will remove the mess that he did to us.

[REDHOTLINE]

Thanks laraitta

[Ámayas_20]

No matter who they are you should cut toxic people out of your life, it sounds like your mother is a toxic person.

[Laraitta]

She definitely is. Me and my brother can't stand her, Nor my dad who broke up with her. Only 2 of my siblings getting along with her. I definitely tired of daily argument with Mom even though I try to set boundaries. She is so mad calling me insane/not normal for admiring the western society. I was in peace last year when I moved away. Sadly I came back for Money reasons.

[Laraitta]

I reported her to the police once in uk. I feel really cursed for having such a mother. 28 years of toxicity until today as we speak.

[Laraitta]

Im just sad how people would think I'm terrible daughter or untrustworthy for talking like this about mom. But they don't truly know how she traumatized me as a child and how awfully talks to me as adult.

[Ámayas_20]

You should take your time save some money and move away, I'd recommend not speaking to her although I do know how hard that is I've not spoken to my own mother since I was a young teenager.

[Tamera952]

Send her to a deprogrammer? Marry a Jew just to spite her?

[Laraitta]

Not Jew but there's a Christian in mind 😏

[Tamera952]

Well then you have the right idea I guess she’s going to get triggered the matter what happens so good luck and be bold

[bigtusk2000]

Islam is the worst and primitive religion and believe it or not but Islam Is already dead middle east is in blitz Israel will soon dominate middle east and Islam only know how to fuck their sisters and give birth to terrorists. Leave islam and you will be free.

[PureHuman]

don't leave Islam just because of others.
Islam is true Religion.
if a Muslim is doing something wrong, then its not mean that Islam is wrong.
good and bad people are everywhere.
just follow Islam, instead of following Muslims.

[OfDeath]

You are correct that Islam is a true religion. Christianity is also a true religion. So is Judaism and Buddhism. They are all truly religions.
To say a Muslim doing something wrong doesn't mean Islam is wrong but if he is doing that wrong thing because he is Muslim then Islam is wrong.
"Religion is an insult to human dignity. Without it you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things.
But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion."
Steven Weinberg.

[Pete671]

She sounds very unhappy and using her religion as a vehicle, best to distance yourself imho,

[Laraitta]

She really is. She had a breakdown recently. Ruined her marriage, health and he rlife is really messy. She doesn't brush her hair.

[In_Trance]

You've been dealing with this for 28 years... you should be telling everyone else, not asking

[Laraitta]

You mean blogging or what 😅

[Laraitta]

I'm definitely thinking about it but in times

[JustCurious0x0]

Show some respect to your mom, try to talk to her nicely you're lucky for being a Muslim, i will convert soon to Islam

[PureHuman]

congrats dear

[JustCurious0x0]

Thanks bro

[Anonymous]

Give her a laxative and tell her to take a one way hike to Mecca.

[Laraitta]

Haha she already does that & always want to. Anyway she can't there's Coronavirus lock down to mecca

[Anonymous]

Do you live in Saudi Arabia?

[Laraitta]

Yess

[Opinion Owner]

Is this a bad country to live? Is it illegal not wearing hijab, burqa or abayas?

[Laraitta]

Not a bad country to live and we don't have to wear hijab

[tasleen]

They learn to be strict.. nothing bad with it