What is your attitude towards forgiveness?

[jennifer_bloom]

I forgive

I forget

I ignore

I don't get angry in the first place

I don't care

I heal

I get compensated

[prensesmishka]

I forgive, just because I know people make mistakes, even huges ones and I did too. Even the ones that hurt me so much and caused me pain. I forgive in order not to be a burden on myself, in order not to carry the anger of something that is already unpleasant in my life with me until I die, to get rid of the heavinesses of it. Because I know that people have betrayal and cruelty in their nature, because I have to understand, because I am a human being too. But I don't keep them in my life. Understanding does not mean accepting. This is one of my life mottos. I look at the big picture and continue to play my part in life, telling myself that it probably happened because it was meant to be. But I no longer have any contact with those people who have harmed me. Even though I don't feel any hatred or resentment towards them, and even though I forgive them for myself, I know that I don't need them anymore. I feel absolutely nothing for them, completely zero, no feelings at all, because I force myself to forget. Sometimes the things people give you can make it difficult for you to continue your life, you may think that you can never trust again and will always be broken. But that's life itself. You can't always blame someone and you have to get up from where you fell. Forgiving is the first step of moving on.

[Potteplante]

I forgive.

People make mistakes, if people correct that mistake and don't repeat that mistake I'll forgive to the extend that I choose to forget.

Then there's been acts done to me, that I'll never be able to forget (&some I can barely remember) that I've forgiven for the sake of healing.

[rupam_das]

Personally i forgive anyone anytime if they begging for forgiveness, unless they put me in serious trouble. And it's because of

1. I know the guild is one of the most dengerous emotion, i can heel my hurting but they can't.

2. I believe that we are not saint everyone do mistake so it's should be our natural effect to forgive.

3. My parents have been teaching me from long time so i cannot disrespect them.

[rupam_das]

Thanks for the MHA

[Sunssong]

I practice it everyday. I mean what I believe to be forgiveness. I believe forgiveness is letting go. Like keeping it out of your consciousness. It works wonders. Peaceful.
Many times people get wronged and just keep thinking about it and ofc it angers them.
The trick is learning how to let go.

[desidoll]

I easily forgive, but I will stay away from the person who have hurt me in the past. Grudge and resentment will just make it worse. It is important to find peace within yourself to move on. Plus, I am a Christian and Christ won’t forgive those who don’t forgive the others.

[ShiftingMonke]

I do not forgive.

I have incredibly high tolerance, and I prefer believing people operate out of ignorance before malice, but if I've been wronged, then I remember it and it will avoid that individual for the rest of my life. I'm not interested in their apologies, should they even try to offer them.

[CreatingWonders]

I don’t forgive, I’ve had people in my life who have done terrible things to me and I’d never forgive them one of them people is now dead and I still would never forgive them for all what they did to me.


Forgiveness to me is like saying “oh what you did to me is ok and it doesn’t matter” f**k no you destroyed me you can burn in hell. I won’t forgive nor will I forget.

[LiamJHayden]

I forgive. That does not mean that if someone were abusive I would stay with her. Forgiving someone's actions does not require hanging out with that person.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I forgive.

The sins I have committed against God are far greater than the sins any person can commit against me. If God can forgive me of my many sins, I can forgive the sins of others that are less.

[Anonymous]

In Mathew Jesus mentioned that



“You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. ' But I say to you, Do not resist one who is evil. But if any one strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also" (Matthew 5:38-39 RSV).“



I don’t see anyone follow Jesus in this matter. I Guess all are just fake believers.

[serious_miss419]

Holding a grudge is a very heavy thing to carry. To forgive is easier to move on within yourself and move forward.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I can move on but break my trust once or hurt me badly once and I will not allow you to do that ever again, we'll most likely grow apart.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Depends on what it is. Id never forgive certain things.

[lottiebannotie]

I forgive but I don't forget if you keep repeating the same behaviour then goodbye

[Anemone978]

I forgive usually but if it was something really bad I make sure I get compensated... by my own means...

[kellytheman]

I am pretty forgivingly and I don't get angry easily I just a calm person. I might forgive someone too much which sometimes a mistake. I forgave a girl twice cheating on me then when she did it the third time I couldn't forgive again.

[Agape93]

I don't forgive or forget. If you want any chance at either, you best hope you truly want it, because I will take it in blood.

[RolandCuthbert]

All I can say is that I am trying. There is no way to move forward unless you can forgive.

[BobbieBoy666]

I don't care. I'm cold hearted. I never forgive.

[admles]

I forgive, but for MY benefit, so as to not hold on to hatred, which I find eats you up inside.

Some things, however, are unforgiveable, like cheating.

[collie22]

I Can forgive someone for being a dope but I Can remember who they are and be ware of the dopey

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Forgiveness is a refusal to allow the poison that is hatred spread and fester into your mind, body and soul

Let it go.

[coachTanthony]

I forgive but I never forget.

[eksekskes]

We must compensate what we broke. That's human law.