He's been dead for 20 years and I dreamt about him just yesterday. He rarely ever showed up in my dreams.
My dream:
We were both 19 year-olds (that's the age he died) and we were holding hands and walking through a beautiful forest, enjoying our time. Then sudden the sunny day turns rainy, the flowers, plants and roses start dying and he starts leaving. He says ''bye now, you're married, we can't be doing this, move on''. Then I keep saying ''No (his name) don't leave me, no, (his name), (his name). Suddenly I wake up and I'm back to my reality of being with someone I love but was never really in love with... and I'm already suspecting he feels the same for me too. I know I'm not his first option either so we're on the same page on that. I don't care too much.
The dream felt so real. I was back to being 19 again and back with my first. I was his first too. Back to our youthful love. Then the dream had to be over, damn. Why did he show up in my dream?
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its often believed when you dream of a passed on loved one they are visiting you. what is called a visitation dream, i have them from time to time. its all up to what you believe, i guess.
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/dreaming-about-a-deceased-loved-one
https://alodreams.com/dreams-about-deceased-loved-ones.html
The dream felt so vivid, unlike the average dreams. I was back with him again but then he didn't want me to hold on to him anymore. He wanted me to move on and continue with my marriage.
It's sad. It's like I had him right there again, we were finally together again and then he left for good.
my family is all passed away. i have had those vivid dreams. i take it as they are visiting me and yeah i know what you mean i wake up crying sometimes.
I wonder if there is an afterlife, then I might reunite with him and my other loved ones too such as both my maternal and paternal grandmas.
Dreams are just dreams. It just means you miss him and think about him. Your mind is imagining what you think he would say to you. Nothing more. Just dreams.
Dreams can be random like that, so don't too much about the how and why.