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Search Results: how to get a second date
Held hands and hugged on the second date but didn’t kiss?
It’s technically our 3rd date, but I count the first one as more as a hang out since the word date wasn’t really established and we both weren’t sure of each other’s intentions. She expresses clear interest over text, and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girl goes home w/guy she just met on a date & gets murdered. Is common sense not so common in women?
Where is the common sense? Do women not have it? I'm noticing on this app, and outside of it, women make decisions that aren't logical at all. Just very basic stuff , it's like their brain only goes so far. For example,...
DreamLife7
Xper 7 Age: 29 
How to date again after being cheated on? How to trust people again?
Long story short about my past experience: I[M28] was cheated on in my previous relationship of 7 years by person that I trusted completely and that looked like a type of the person that would never cheat. After that I...
dontkey_hot
Xper 2 Age: 31 She broke up with me cause I was taking too long?
I started talking to this girl in 2022, we went on a few dates hooked up a few times. Most of our dates were at my place, we went on a few dates outside when she asked. I didn't like where I was in life and had to clear...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you feel happy when you see your old dates in a relationship?
So… There was this cute guy who traveled a country to meet me, we clicked but as friends, he was nice, but not my type of guy. He was handsome, cute and all, I just didn’t feel passion towards him, he brought me his...
Dates and related drama continue?
I realized he is working from he at night and just watches the data processing of an insurance company. His house smells of marijuana and it was hard to breathe. He burped in front of me, and I told him it was a deal...
Mehrsia
Xper 2 Age: 48 Girls, Should I stand him up?
I went on a first date with a guy, and it went great. He asked to see me again, and we regularly texted afterwards. He seemed genuine and like he wanted to get to know me. One day, out of the blue, he suggested I come...
Delle123
Xper 3 Age: 28 Boyfriends background and past as well as my anxiety issues making me question myself? please advice?
This is more of a rant but me and my boyfriend met nearly 3mths back and we had a rocky start with misunderstandings due to different backgrounds we came from. Now after 2-3 big fights and trying to learn about each...
confusedtea
Xper 4 Age: 22 Boyfriends background and past as well as my anxiety issues making me question myself?
This is more of a rant but me and my boyfriend met nearly 3 months back and we had a rocky start with misunderstandings cause of different backgrounds that we came from. Now after 2-3 big fights and trying to learn about...
Anonymous
(18-24) You ever been on a date with someone that got tipsy or drunk and then they started flirting with other people in front of you?
They changed to this whole new person right before your eyes , basically going from kind and sweet and caring to this attention seeker the second they get tipsy from drinking. This one girl I took on a date ended up...
The guy I went on a second date with hasn’t contacted me in 3 days. Is he not interested?
I went on a couple dates with a guy and they both went really well. During our first date conversation he got really deep and personal. He talked to me about how he views life, his mother passing away and his experience...
Delle123
Xper 3 Age: 28 Is it normal to be anxious and feel like wanting to run away when you start dating someone you like?
Had a crush on this guy for a while, couldn’t stop thinking of him for months etc. we hang out in the same friends group. I am pretty sure he’s someone I could date seriously and based on present knowledge can see myself...
Anonymous
(30-35) Advice on my date's behaviour, should I go for a third date?
So I've been out with this guy a couple of times altho he's nice, his behaviour surprises me. For context, I'm mindful of a guy's time and money so unless I feel a mutual strong connection, I typically only suggest going...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are the reasons a guy still texts me after first date, but hasn't suggested second date?
What are reasons why a guy still texts me after first date, but hasn't suggested second date? He said he had a good time with me when I thanked him after getting home from first date. For the 2 days after first...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do women quickly lose interest you get all flaky and distant themselves?
I was talking to this woman for every single day for 2 months on Facebook dating before we met, we met up twice and had sex both times before we met we’d send each other long chunks of paragraph messages a couple times a...
JamieRobinson1994
Xper 6 Age: 31 Girls, Can get sex (barely) but can’t get into relationships, why is that?
Until I turned 26, I remained a virgin. After finally having experiences with three women, each expressed that we weren't compatible for a long-term relationship. Recently, I've been talking to a girl daily for two months...
JamieRobinson1994
Xper 6 Age: 31 Is it selfish that my girlfriend doesn’t want kids?
I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years and our plan is to get married by December. My girlfriend is dead set against us having kids. She doesn’t want kids but wants me to be a second dad to her friend’s kids. She’s...
Anonymous
(36-45) 
I don't believe him and I kinda think he's gay?
I've been seeing this guy for a month now. (28F + 32M) I like him, and we seem super compatible so far. But there are a few things bothering me... 1. Kinda liar He's a good person, truly. He's been single for a while and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Did she change her mind about dating me?
At the end of a second date with a girl, at the door of her apartment before leaving I asked if she'd be down to go on more dates. I could sense hesitancy in her answers. She said we could go on another date, but she said...
MarioFan200
Xper 6 Age: 25 How do you know when you’re rejecting or ruling out a guy for a good reason or a bad one? Do you think my reasonings for ruling out guys makes sense?
I don’t get much male attention, dms, approaches, casual conversation. At times the most I have is around 3 guys in my messages at the worst none. At my most recent best with around 3 guys in the end I ruled them all out...
Anonymous
(18-24) 