What are reasons why a guy still texts me after first date, but hasn't suggested second date?
He said he had a good time with me when I thanked him after getting home from first date.
For the 2 days after first date, he texted me in the morning asking about my plans for the weekend, but didn't reply until at least a whole day had passed.
Before first date he would get online (WhatsApp) within minutes or as soon as I texted him, and would reply within minutes or right away, before I finished replying to his texts.
He has complimented on me in texts after first date, so I would say that if he wasn't interested in me, he wouldn't be doing that, right?
But the frequency and timing of his texts have changed after first date. Now he replies at least after a whole day had passed, and he would say that he's just reading my texts after 6 it 7 in the evening.
I'm okay if a guy is busy and doesn't reply right away, but his texting behaviors only changed after first date, but it doesn't seem that he's completely uninterested, either.
Is he keeping me as a backup?
It's tough to say without knowing more about the interaction, but he probably likes you, but he's just busy throughout the day. You just had a first date, so there's not really an immediate need to schedule another one just yet, you know?
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You haven't given him the right signs to suggest that you're interested in a second date
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It's tough to say but he could be setting it up in his head while trying to get to know you a bit better, or he's just taking things very slow... Maybe he's been busier at work?
It is still very early but you can set a boundary where if you won't communicate in a reasonable time could you at least give my a heads up? Maybe that's a bit much but it's still very early
Why are you texting a man you just dated. Can't he talk?
He's probably waiting for you to ask him to hang out. So ask him to take you somewhere
He is interested but you seem to easy or needy
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