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Based on the movie of this case. He was dating two women at the same time. Jodi had no clue and neither did the other woman. They just assumed one another were friends.. Jodi assumed she was his one and only. That was until his phone went off while he was in the shower. Jodi checked his phone and seen where he had been seeing another woman for months and through text claimed he wasn't with Jodi she was just some psycho who's obsessed with him so he had to let her down easy by being her friend.

Jodi went into the shower , took pictures of him as if she was being sexual, he laughed and posed🤣 , then boom jodi stabbed him several times. He tried to run she then grabbed the back of his head and slit his throat.

27F, I may sound entitled but from my gut feeling and experiences in life, I know how these things play out on the apps. That’s my only avenue bc I don’t have a social life, I use them very very casually. This has happened a few times where I ask if the guy wants to message on social media bc I don’t check the apps often, they or I give my account info, we add each other & I wait for them to message me. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t. From what I noticed in my life even if I take initiative & it usually doesn’t work out, it goes a bit further if the guy makes the first move. I asked a guy Wed about msging on social media bc I don’t check app often, add him on IG, he adds me back, views my story & likes a photo of my dog & I but doesn’t reach out?

TL; DR: ask guy from dating app to add/message each other on social media, he likes photo of my dog & I but doesn’t message me, not interested?

Assuming you do not yourself adhere to gender roles. if you do then this question would seem unnecessary and odd 🙏🏼

This is not judgement against anyone’s preferred style of dating. And this is not about trying to change anyone. This would be someone who thinks they want a “fluid roles based on situation & competency not gender, egalitarian relationship’. As apposed to ‘hierarchal or strictly gender role based relationship’

So for example. They do not think they care about gender risks it’s not something something they say or think they are looking for but they have I become I explicably bothered if you’re a girl and you initiate a date or you are a boy and you ask her to take care of the plans.

personally I do not care who does what, I don’t want to control the situation and I do not want to be controlled. In dating like in a relationship I would want a team effort with people playing their strengths which will be unique to each person and hopefully comparable with their partner. I woke it get along with someone who disturbed if there is not behavioral segregation…

However, if someone had unconscious expectations of rigid gender roles, but did not consciously require it, I guess whether I stayed would depend on if they really were ok with things being fluid or only thought they were but deep down they wanted the gender role situation. I guess that’s take a bit of talking and some time to sort out.

I recognize certain traits may be more pronounced in each sex respectively, and I have nothing against anyone doing what they have natural feel for. I’m just not comfortable making an issue out of it and forcing anyone to perform in ways that they don’t gravitate towards naturally just to fulfill the idea that it “should” come naturally.

also I understand my example was heavily cliche’ — this is hypothetical and initiating is a fairly ubiquitous occurrence in dating so it seemed universally comprehensive & relatable. 🤷🏻‍♀️