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I've haven't spoken to her since Dec 2021. She's trying to reach me but I'm still too hurt. I consider what she did unexcusable. I'm having a hard time forgiving.

She has always gotten upset for trivial things, blown things out of proportion (ex: if you were to tell her that she dances in a unique way, she starts crying, thinking you hate her and refuses to talk to you) and goes into the ''not talking to you for a week or so'' if someone doesn't apologizes first, even if it wasn't your fault at all. She likely has borderline personality disorder; I don't know.

Flashback to last year:

Well her pride, getting upset with me for something stupid and refusing to talk to me... made her purposely miss my special day. All my family members (my father and everyone else) and friends were there, everyone but her. I needed her to be present on the most important day of my life. By not showing up, it's like she refused me, she rejected me. For me, I felt it a rejection of the highest level ever, as way ''I don't love nor care about you'' at all. I don't even believe in her previous ''I love you'' words anymore. I'm still hurt. Is my anger justified?

When I asked my brother who is 21, about him not liking me accepting my boyfriend's video call in front of him and his one college friend, he said that I should not have done that as his friend will spread it in his college that his sister has a boyfriend.

But also, when my brother was in a relationship at age 20, he used to openly video call in front of his friends, parents and me too, so when i asked him that why he did not mind accepting her GFs video call, he told me that, her dad has xxx properties and xxx homes (technically his girlfriend and his family was richer than bro and our family) - I got negative vibes from my brother as I love my boyfriend and I got no reason to hide it from anyone.

I also did not feel that I did anything wrong by accepting video call of his in front of my brother and his friend. (I am 25 and my boyfriend is 30)

My boyfriend (we are in a serous relationship) is of good family, but his origin is different state, and he is also a middle class and not as rich as us. My father likes him. My mom suggested me to find someone richer, but I said that I will never break my boyfriend's heart.