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Search Results: do guys back off
Why do guys get upset that they’re in the friendzone?
Some guy I knew called me out and went off on me because he felt the same way as my guy friend when I keep shutting him down every-time he asked me out so many times. Every school dance, Valentine’s Day. I did go to the...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would he do this and leave me frustrated 😂😩?
Context: Me (35F) Basically have been flirting with this guy friend (41M) I’ve known for a few years now. We’ve only ever been friends with a crush for each other. But nothing ever progressed and we only ever hung out...
Smnthajoe
Xper 1 Age: 33 Why do guys back off if you tell them you like them even if they showed interest initially?
why does this happen, it’s like if a girl does this, everything changes, the chase is over and it scares a guy off even if he was interested initially?
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I end this or continue talking to him basically on his terms?
I was going out with this guy for a month we went on dates and hung out together basically everyday for a month. He left to Europe for a trip with his family for a month and since he’s been gone he’s barely reached out to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Would a guy message you everyday if he wasn’t interested in you (read description for more detail)?
so I’ve been speaking to this guy for about 3 months now, we’ve had two great dates. But a mutual friend of ours told me he said to them that he “doesn’t know if he has the time for a girlfriend right now”. At first I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a woman hang out with a previous friend/ intimate partner who is toxic?
I been seeing a woman for about two years now she lives in California and I live in Texas. I’m originally from California So I go a couple months over there to visit friends and family. When I do I spend time with her...
vman1988
Xper 4 Age: 37 Am I in the wrong for being attracted to a guy that’s 10 years older than me?
Hi, I’m an 18 year old female that’s about to graduate from high school in two months and there’s this guy that’s a substitute teacher at my school and at first it was just a tiny attraction towards him, (started when I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why would a woman hang out with a previous friend / intimate partner who is toxic?
I been seeing a woman for about two years now she lives in California and I live in Texas. I’m originally from California So I go a couple months over there to visit friends and family. When I do I spend time with her...
vman1988
Xper 4 Age: 37 Should I pay an ex back?
So it was about June 2024 we ended, for many reasons. I (24) didn’t feel like he put effort in. So he (20) didn’t ask me out, just told people we were dating. I told him to pick a movie one day and I’ll come over in...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a guy act hot and cold but when he sees you talking to another guy act really nice and back on again?
A guy seemed to l really like me, then he backed off for a bit and became slightly cold. i was talking to another male friend the other day and this guy saw this and as soon as I finished talking, the guy was really...
Anonymous
(25-29) Situationship Drama?
Hi everyone, I have a story for you and please if you could give me some honest advice. I started talking to this one guy about a month ago. We had known each other previously through mutual friends but nothing came...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need support?
Me and this guy have been talking off and on recently. I've known him since middle school and we used to talk in 8th grade and in high school. We used to be in a relationship. It started back in January of 2017 at my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Honest answers please?
So I have a situation with a guy friend, we have known each other for 3 years. A little while back we started chatting about our sex lives and preferences. I noticed he kept saying if we did x when he was asking about...
Anonymous
(36-45) GAGers, am I weird for the way I handled this?
I’m sorry this is long and I’m ranting. I matched with a guy on eharmony not long ago and gave him my number on Friday, and he called me. I knew it was him but didn’t answer because at the time I was in the passenger seat...
Anonymous
(36-45) Veteran Dating?
I had this date back in December. This guy was a military man now a veteran. He left his wife because she was lazy and depressed. There was no more details about why she was in that frame of mind. He told me really sad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Maladroit Mid-Life-Musings: Bullying, Bystanders and Regret (25 years later)
I'm turning 40 in a few days, so I've been all sorts of reflective recently. I don't know anybody who would want to hear all of this. So...I'll throw it up on the internet for people to read; or not. I'm writing this...
Why do guys ALWAYS leave me for gorgeous women?
Okay so I think I’m okay looking. I’m not gorgeous but I’m not ugly. I don’t really dress up, I just wear cute blouses, jeans, sneakers, band shirts or flannel shirts. I don’t dress feminine but I don’t dress manly. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) Need post hook-up advice:I don't know what happened?
I kinda know what's going on but still some clarity would be nice. I was texting with this guy on and off for a month and initially I wasn't super interested. He was very proactive in texting me and would double text and...
Sara_cs
Xper 1 Age: 35 He asked my instagram but does not interact?
hi everyone, I am asking for your honest opinion here So about two weeks ago when I was working at my part-time student job, I had some eye contact with a good looking guy several times. I noticed him going over to his...
Anonymous
(25-29) If you told a guy you like him, why would he not say anything but continue to flirt with you?
Really confused, I told a guy I liked him (ok by text not ideal) and for ages he seemed to back off and this past week he’s been really flirty with me.
Anonymous
(25-29) 